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History Making Times

2009-01-21T07:53:00.000-08:00

There are moments in history that I will always remember learning about as a student in school. Those moments are too numerous to mention here.

Yesterday, as Barack Obama was sworn in as the President of the United States, it occurred to me that, one day, my great great grandkids will learn about this history making moment (assuming Jesus does not return before then). It remains to be seen how history will judge Barack Obama as a President, but there is no question, history will always remember the moment that he became the first African American President.

In a time with so much uncertainty, he has brought a voice of hope to America.

However, Barack Obama's rise to leadership is not the only history making moment we are living in. History is being written all around us - including in the "economic tsunami" as some like to call it. I am reminded that much of the problem in the current economic times is due to some really selfish and poor choices by many individuals all around the world.

In that sense, millions of people have contributed to history being made.

We sometimes have a hard time connecting our daily choices to making any kind of impact. None of us will ever be the President of the United States, but yet, the choices we make every day help to shape the world we live in and the world our children will inherit.

My prayer for the men of Canada during these challenging times is that we will rise up and be men. Men who will take responsibility for the personal choices we have made to contribute to our current challenges, and men who will lead the way and make choices that reflect God's desire for His sons. We live in history making times. We are helping to make history. What will the history books write about the choices we made? More importantly, what will the King of Kings say about the choices we've made when we stand before Him one day.

A Crazy Few Weeks

2008-11-21T05:13:00.001-08:00

My apologies for the delay in updating this blog. It has been a crazy few weeks of traveling and attending PK conferences. We are so grateful for all that God has accomplished.

So far, approximately 6,000 men have attended PK Canada conferences this fall. In addition, more than 250 men are currently enrolled in Discipleship Training Unleashed - where we mentor and disciple men and then help them become prepared to mentor and disciple other men.

The coolest part of the last few weeks has been the number of men who have emailed me or who spoke with me and introduced me to a friend they brought this year to a PK Canada event. These were not just a normal introduction - these were men introducing me to their friend who became a brother in Christ during the event. Praise God! These guys get it. They understand that attending a PK event is not just about them, but it is about the thousands of men around us who either do not know Jesus or who just need to be encouraged in their life. they are living out the mentality of "Leave No Man Behind."

We were thrilled to have the men from PK New Zealand visit with us last week. What a great group of guys. They are having a significant impact in New Zealand.

At a personal level, I was really happy to have my oldest son, Carter, with me at the GPS conference this past weekend in Toronto. Ten years ago, when Carter was only two years old, I stood in the middle of the floor at the Kitchener Memorial Auditorium and listened to several thousand men sing and worship God. I prayed, "Lord, let my son experience men worshiping like this." This past weekend, God answered my prayer. Carter stood and was filled with awe as he heard almost 5,000 men sing "Jesus, all for Jesus" without any instruments. As his jaw almost hit the floor, he turned and said to me, "Dad, THAT was cool!"

There is so much happening right now at PK Canada. God is moving in men's lives across this nation. Thank you to everyone who is doing their part in the cause to Leave No Man Behind in this nation.

Alberta Bound

2008-10-17T06:51:00.000-07:00

I'm in Calgary right now getting ready for the GameDay conference this weekend.

I spent all day in Edmonton yesterday, and enjoyed some really good meetings with various individuals. The common theme as I met with these men -- our communities, churches, and nation need men who are being discipled to follow Jesus.

One of my highlights was the time spent at The Park Church in Sherwood Park. The Park will be host to our GameDay event this coming April, and I had the opportunity to meet Pastor Rick Hilsden and some of his team. Pastor Rick had a stroke about a year ago, but during our time together, I really came to admire his love for God and for the church family God has called him to shepherd. Even with lingering effects of the stroke, Pastor Rick is a man on a mission. He is a glimpse of many faithful men of God serving as pastors in local churches across this nation.

The roller coaster ride known as the world economy is also having an impact in Alberta. You may not always see it, with the incredible amount of construction in this province, but it is there. I only needed to spend a little time with some men to begin hearing stories.

It is good to know that while the god of money crumbles, the one true God provides an anchor for all of us. Didn't Jesus once teach something about building a house on a rock vs. a house on sand??

It's going to be a great weekend in Calgary at GameDay. Meanwhile, other members of the PK team are in Manitoba this weekend for Discipleship Training Unleashed, and they are joined by more than 50 other men.

I'll share more stories of what God is doing in men's lives in my next post. Until then, please be in prayer for the men who will encounter God at PK events this weekend.

The Thick of Things

2008-10-03T04:46:00.000-07:00

Things continue to really pick up around the office and inside the ministry of PK Canada. Here are a few highlights of what is happening right now:

This weekend, we will see our third Discipleship Training Unleashed module of this fall. There are some great stories already being told from the first couple of weekends, and we believe this weekend will be no different.
Registrations have been pouring in for our conferences this fall. Tuesday is the early bird deadline for the Hershey Centre event in Toronto. It is great to see thousands of men committing to being part of these weekend experiences.
Our new small group study guide - The King's Men "Walking with the Master"- has been designed and is currently being printed. We are also translating this study guide into French and will make it available through our French web site.
Our November/December issue of Seven magazine is about to go to print. This issue will be focused on conflict and will feature an article looking at the incredible interest men have in mixed martial arts and the Ultimate Fighting Championship.

This is just a small reflection of the scope of ministry that is taking place in Canada this fall. The momentum is building and we are excited to see all that God wants to do in men's lives.

If you're at one of the conferences this fall, take a minute to connect with me. I'd love to hear from you.

Changing Times & Moving Forward

2008-09-18T12:38:00.000-07:00

We have just returned from a couple of great days meeting with our staff, Board of Directors, and Corporation members. The Annual PK Annual General Meeting is an activity filled with plenty of legal requirements for us as a charitable organization, but more importantly, it is a time for us to pray and envision together where God wants to take the ministry of PK in the days ahead.

Times are certainly changing in our nation. There is an election called. People are facing mounting pressures in their jobs and in their families. Earlier this week, a business that has been a friend to PK over the years - R.G. Mitchell Bookstores - went into receivership. This creates an interesting dilemma as we prepare to have resources available for men at our events this fall. That said, God is already opening doors in this area. We really see books and other materials as important tools to help men continue to grow in their walk with God and their families, and we will do everything we can to have the best resources for men available. Our online store features many outstanding titles already - check it out at www.promisekeepers.ca

In the midst of these changing times, there are certainly some really exciting things happening at PK. This weekend, things kick off once again as more than 30 men from the Regina area participate in our in-depth, interactive, and personal mentoring process called Discipleship Training Unleashed. These guys are in for a great and personally stretching time this weekend.

Registrations for events continue to come in. Registrations for GPS at the Hershey Centre are particularly going well with more than 1,400 men already registered for the event this November. We are on pace to sell out early for this event, so please encourage your friends to register soon to make sure they are there. We are seeing an incredible level of excitement for the events this fall.

Our new small group study guide - part 1 of a series called "The King's Men" will soon be available. I expect to see some of the artwork for this guide sometime tomorrow, and it should be printed by early October.

Recently, we added a new member to the team at PK. Shawna Pilat is serving as National Prayer Coordinator and is committed to raising up teams of men and women across this nation to pray for the men of Canada along with the ministry of PK. We firmly believe that it is only God's power that can transform men's lives, and we want to be intentional to pray for that to happen in the coming months and years.

It is refreshing to know, that no matter how much things may change in the world, our God has invited us to continue to press on and has reminded us that His grace is sufficient. In a world searching for stability, hope, and integrity - all of these things can be found in Jesus Christ. It is our goal to make this known to the men of Canada and to see Him bring rest to the souls of men and their families.

A Good Busy

2008-09-05T05:21:00.001-07:00

I was speaking with one of our Regional Coordinators - Rob Clogg from BC - the other day, and he shared with me something that his pastor shared in a sermon. The basic principle is that it's not necessarily wrong to be busy, but there is a good busy and a bad busy.

Well, the fall is here, and for PK, that means it is time for a "good busy" season to begin.

Conferences
Conference Registrations have really started to come in to our office. We are looking forward to launching a new conference city this fall in Montreal.

Registrations for the GPS National Conference in Toronto are tracking ahead of last year. We are really looking forward to thousands of men once again filling the Hershey Centre. If you are organizing a group to attend the Hershey Centre event in Toronto, I encourage you to take advantage of the special group rate available until September 15th (only $50 per registration for a Fri/Sat ticket and a group of 20).

We continue to meet and discuss the program for the events. It is our greatest desire that the men who attend will have an encounter with God, and that we simply try to encourage and create an environment for that to happen.

Discipleship Training
Discipleship Training Unleashed continues to expand across the country, and this fall we launch in several new locations. Registrations are going really well for these intensive and personal journeys of discovering God's design for various areas of your life. Some modules are almost SOLD OUT for this fall, and the one in Toronto already is SOLD OUT. Praise God!!

PK Annual General Meeting
Our Annual General Meeting is coming up in just over a week. This is a time for the staff and Board to meet together. We fellowship, pray, and lay out the plans we believe God is calling us to in the coming year. It is always a great time.

There are so many other things happening at PK right now. I encourage you to get the men around you together and attend a PK event or participate in Discipleship Training as it comes to a community near you.

Yes, we are busy. It's a good busy. We look forward to what God wants to do in and through the lives of men in the coming months.

Keep going strong! You are not alone.

A Double Life

2008-08-29T04:25:00.000-07:00

Last week, I talked about the story of Michael Guglielmucci. Since that time, more details have come out - including an interview with his father who revealed that his son has been a porn addict since the age of 12. You can read the entire article here.

How should a Christian respond to something like this? I've been trying to think about this question all week.

First, I am reminded of the grace and mercy of God. If you have grown up in the church, it is really easy to learn how to "play the game" when you're in front of other Christians and be someone totally different in private. Beyond this reality, everyone is in need of having things brought into the light. It is only in the light that people can truly become free in the depths of their soul. Guglielmucci may be experiencing pain and embarrassment right now, but at some point, he will be free because his lie is now in the open and he does not have to carry that weight around. The death and resurrection of Jesus Christ paid for the past, present, and future sins of all who believe in Him. It may not seem fair that someone who does so much damage can be forgiven, but Jesus died for Guglielmucci as much as He did for you and for me.

I am also grateful that Jesus said He is the one who builds His church. Guglielmucci is not the first, and he won't be the last Christian leader to fail in such a big way. We need to constantly remember that Jesus is the Head of the Church - not any individual. Within the Body of Christ, everyone has a part to play. Yes, some are set out as having a more public role, but according to 1 Corinthians 12, they are no more important than anyone else who follows Jesus Christ. In fact, no matter what part of the Body you are, your strengths help make the Body stronger, and your failures are felt by the entire Body (directly or indirectly). We are in this together.

As Christians, what makes us different is not that we are perfect people. To some degree, all of us are hypocrites. What makes us different is that we know we are not perfect, and that we only have peace and rest in our souls because of the grace of God.

This is a time for praying for everyone involved in a very difficult situation. There are many people who are seriously hurting right now, and they need the strength and healing that can only come from God.

The truth of the song that Guglielmucci wrote - "Healer" - has never been more appropriate. Jesus is not just the healer of our physical disease, but He also heals the brokenhearted and sets the captives free.

Pastor Fakes Illness ... Now What?

2008-08-21T09:19:00.000-07:00

I am typically a little slow at catching up with the latest songs in the Christian world. A couple of weeks ago, my brother introduced me to a song called "Healer" that had just that extra something to it. I was moved to tears as I listened to this song and the story behind it. Pastor Michael Guglielmucci from Australia wrote this song in response to being diagnosed with terminal cancer.

The song was an instant hit on YouTube, iTunes, and was also featured prominently by Hillsong in Australia (including Michael leading the song with an oxygen tube on for his cancer).

Earlier today, I was shocked to read that the whole story is a hoax. He never had cancer and has been lying to his whole family, friends, church, and the entire Christian community who has received so much hope from his story and from the truth of the song that he wrote.

Right now, I am a little numb from the whole situation because it is exhausting to see another story of a Christian leader in this kind of circumstance. My heart goes out to his family and others who are close to him who must feel so betrayed.

I will post on this again in a few days as I process how I believe God may want us to deal with these kinds of situations, and what may drive a man to do something like this. In the meantime, please be in prayer for everyone - including Michael - who has been deeply impacted by this sad story.

Crazy?!

2008-08-08T05:29:00.000-07:00

It's good to be back from holidays. We had a great time during our break which consisted of everything from sitting on a beach along Lake Huron to leading games time during VBS to riding the waterslides at Great Wolf Lodge in Niagara Falls.

During my holidays there were a couple of crazy things that happened, and I thought I'd comment on them.

First, there is the tragic story of the young man who was brutally murdered on a bus for no apparent reason. Yesterday, I read that a "church" from the U.S. is planning to send some people to Winnipeg to protest outside the funeral for this young man. The reason for the protest? This young man's murder is a sign of God's judgment on Canada for the sins we are allowing to occur in Canada. According to this report in the Winnipeg Sun, the protesters would carry signs like "Repent and turn from your sin."

Now, I will never excuse the potential that God still does judge nations in a variety of ways for their sins (He did it throughout Scripture, why would now be any different?). However, to protest in this kind of way at the funeral of this young man just seems to be crossing a line. Is this really how to "love your neighbour" and "make disciples of Jesus"? Why do some who profess Jesus as their Lord do things like this? It's incredibly frustrating to see this happen.

On another front, I took some time to read a book called "Crazy Love" during my vacation. This is an outstanding book that is both inspiring and challenging at the same time. I was reminded of the great love God has for His children. At the same time, I was personally challenged in many different ways. If you have ever felt lukewarm in your faith and walk with God - this book is a must read. You can order it online from PK by clicking here.

Ministry Updates

The new PK Worship CD arrived in our offices this week. There are great songs featuring Robin Mark, Paul Baloche, Tim Hughes, Matt Redman, Charlie Hall, Hillsong United, and more. Many of these songs will be featured at the conferences this fall and next spring. We provide this CD so men can learn some songs in advance of a conference and be ready to join with other men in singing loud to our God. To order the CD, you can get a special deal of $16 when you register for the conference, or order the CD by itself by clicking here.

Our staff have been hard at work in putting the finishing touches on the promo materials for the fall. Mailings began last week, and you should see your brochures soon! This year's National Conferences are a very timely (no pun intended) theme given the crazy, busy world all of us seem to live in.

We are also excited to bring GameDay to Calgary and PK back to Montreal this fall. If the previous GameDay 08 events are any indication, Calgary and Montreal are in for a great time this fall.

We have received great feedback on the first edition of Seven magazine. The September/October edition has just been finalized and looks awesome. It will be mailed in early September to everyone who has asked to receive it.

There is a lot more going on at PK - I'll share some more next time.

Is God Still Working?

2008-07-11T05:36:00.000-07:00

I don't know about you, but I often find it overwhelming to watch the news. In today's news, the price of oil has gone up almost $10 a barrel in 48 hours, and Iran is testing missiles that could reach Israel, Turkey, or Pakistan. Images of wildfires, floods, murders, poverty, and environmental concerns seem to bombard us each day.

I watched an extensive interview on the BBC yesterday with a leader from the Anglican church who is holding to the biblical perspective on same sex marriage. It is so sad to see what is happening with the Anglican church around the world - my heart goes out to my brothers and sisters in Christ who are holding to the truth. The Anglican church is not alone. Churches all around the world are facing increasing pressure to compromise truth, not to mention financial pressures that are mounting.

Closer to home, people are losing their jobs and/or racking up incredible and overwhelming loads of debt. In my sphere of relationships, this past year has been filled with divorce or serious relationship problems along with disease and death.

It is easy for people to lose hope - to wonder if God is still at work, or if He even cares about what is happening in our world.

This is where we need to step back and gain some perspective. He promises to meet every need that we have. It is amazing what passes as a need in North America today. People lined up overnight in thunderstorms because they needed to be the first ones in Canada to get an iphone!! What??!! In financial difficulties, how many times have you or I said, "If only I had a little more money ... " Yet, we have significantly more money than virtually everyone else in the world.

Yes, He meets our every need, but the primary purpose of Jesus is to provide the way for people to be reconciled to God and enjoy the certainty of eternal life rather than the hopelessness of death. I think we sometimes act like the role of Jesus is to provide for our comfort rather than to be our Redeemer.

I believe that God sometimes allows things to happen in our world to get our attention and cause us to ask the question, "Where is my hope found?" As the famous hymn writer put it - "my hope is built on nothing less than Jesus blood and righteousness. I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus' name."

Is God still working? Absolutely! I see it everywhere we go with PK, and I hear the strories from all around the world. There are things that never make the news because the world just does not understand.

As a husband and father, I have seen recently how my wife and kids watch to see where my hope is found. During the middle of a recent tornado warning in our town, I took the family downstairs for safety. My daughter began to cry with fear about what might happen to our home and our family. "Will we die, dad?" As I tried to comfort her and tell her that God would protect us, my ten year old son blurted out - "And even if He doesn't, we will all wake up in heaven, so it doesn't really matter." Wow!! That was just a great moment for me as a dad.

I believe God is still working, but not for our comfort. He is working to show us that He alone is to be our Rock. He is working to take us out of comfort zones to trust Him fully. Ready or not, it's happening all around you.

Vacation and PK News
This will be the last post for a few weeks as I enjoy some vacation time with my family. We'll be back after the August long weekend.

Things are busy around the office as we prepare for our fall conferences and Discipleship Training. We are encouraged with early registrations for the conferences and seem to be on track for another great season of ministry. Posters and brochures are being designed and printed as I write this, and will be mailed in the next few weeks.

It's going to be a great year of ministry!!

Henry Morgentaler and The Order of Canada

2008-07-02T12:31:00.000-07:00

In my last entry, I discussed some of the things about Canada for us to celebrate. Today, one day after Canada Day, it saddens me to discuss the fact that Dr. Henry Morgentaler has been appointed to the Order of Canada by the Governor General.

According to a CTV.ca article, "The Governor General's website states that Morgentaler was made a member of the Order of Canada for 'his commitment to increased health care options for women, his determined efforts to influence Canadian public policy and his leadership in humanist and civil liberties organizations.' Morgentaler personally noted, '(It's a) sign of recognition for all the work I've done over the years and the sacrifices I've made. I think that finally now the government recognized my contribution to Canadian women and I'm very proud of it.'"

There are going to be many who are going to write their opinions on this situation. Some will be for Dr. Morgentaler and some will be against. It is heartbreaking to see that lost in this shuffle are the thousands and thousands of babies this nation will never have the chance to meet because of abortion and the efforts of doctors like Morgentaler. God is about life. He creates, sustains, and redeems life. He sent His Son - Jesus Christ - so that we can have the opportunity for eternal life and life to the fullest (John 10:10). Jesus said, the thief comes to kill and destroy (also in John 10). While I know Jesus was talking about our spiritual enemy - Satan - it just seems like this is a fitting description for anyone who takes the life of an unborn child (yes, by unborn I mean starting at conception).

From a men's perspective, it is important to also consider the thousands of men who have not had the opportunity to be a father because of the decision to abort children before they are born. I have heard stories of Pregnancy Centres who are now dealing with young men who want to take responsibility for their part in conceiving a child, but who do not have the opportunity to be a dad because their child has been aborted. I have heard stories about their pain and guilt over this reality.

It is a difficult day in Canada when we have chosen to honour someone who has helped lead the efforts of abortion. As a believer and follower of Jesus, I cling to the hope that His grace reaches beyond our mistakes. I pray that God will reveal this truth to anyone who is part of the "pro-choice" movement. For the men of Canada who feel guilt over an abortion, I invite you to turn to Jesus. He has a way of making all things new and taking your despair and bringing healing and joy back to your life.

For those who are angry about this decision by our leaders, I challenge you to consider the teachings of Jesus. How can you use your righteous anger as an opportunity to display love? Using your anger inappropriately will make you no different than those who seek to destroy life. Using it to love creates an environment for people to meet the One who gives life. In addition, I urge you to pray daily for our leaders. The Scripture is very clear that we are called to pray for those that have been placed in authority over us. Today, we are reminded why.

While I am a disappointed Canadian today, I am grateful that my true citizenship is a man who is part of the Kingdom of Jesus Christ by the grace of God. In moments like these, we are given the chance to be His ambassadors to Canada. Represent your King, Jesus Christ, well.

Celebrating What's Right About Canada

2008-06-27T06:43:00.001-07:00

There is a lot of talk about what's wrong with Canada. We hear stories about jobs being lost (well, at least in Ontario we do), murders, high gas prices, crooked politicians, poor treatment of aboriginal people, and pastors and ministries facing legal challenges from what the Bible teaches on homosexuality. In the Christian community, we are also bombarded with and often participate in stories about what is wrong with the Church in Canada today.

The Apostle Paul wrote something to the Philippians that would be very applicable for Christians in Canada today.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just,
whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any
excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
(Philippians 4:8)

So, to be obedient to Scripture, and to express my gratitude to God for allowing me to live in and enjoy this nation, here are some things that are right about Canada:

Like the vast majority of Canadians, I enjoy a home with a roof over my head and food on my table.
We are still free to meet as Christians to worship Jesus. While it is annoying to some, and downright frowned upon by society, I am still free to invite people to believe in and follow Jesus without fearing that I will be thrown in prison or killed.
There are incredible groups of Christians meeting together to further the cause of the Kingdom of Jesus. Today, I am grateful for the wisdom and vision of Centre Street Church in Calgary for hiring (to the best of my knowledge), Canada's first full time pastor to men - former PK staffer Kevin Trick. There are many other churches and ministries I could tell you about - let's just say that there is a lot of good being done in this country by followers of Jesus being salt and light in the world. The Body of Christ is alive and through God's strength is doing great things in this nation.
We can walk into a hospital and be cared for. Most of us have hospitals that are relatively close to where we live. Yes, we wait a long time sometimes, but I'd rather wait and be cared for than just lay in bed at home dying.
Today, I woke up to the sounds of my children laughing and my cat meowing (both looking for food). I'd rather have this reality than waking up to the sound of guns and bombs.

God has blessed us so much, and part of His blessings is allowing us to enjoy all that we do enjoy in this nation of Canada. What is right about Canada that you could celebrate?

To all my fellow Canucks out there -- Happy Canada Day! Enjoy and be grateful.

Asking for Directions

2008-06-20T09:57:00.000-07:00

I was on my way to a PK event in Detroit, Michigan and looking forward to spending a weekend with 80,000 other Christian men. One turn down a street and suddenly I discovered I was in the wrong part of town and was seriously lost. I finally broke down and did what all men hate doing - ask for directions. Opening up the door to the local corner store, it was very clear that this was not my usual neighborhood. The store clerk asked, "What are you doing here?" and that was enough to get me out of the room and back into my car - wandering through the streets of Detroit. Not fun!!

Why do we have such a tough time asking for directions?

In Jeremiah 6, the prophet describes a scene of confusion within the streets of Jerusalem. Today, confusion still exists. Men are bombarded with messages of what is important and how to be a "real" man. They are working longer hours for less pay. Many are losing their jobs. They face a mountain of bills that seem to never end. Men want to be a good father and husband, but face time demands and conflicting messages on what that looks like. They are trying to find time for God and find their place in the church. On top of it all, they see the problems facing the world - problems that are so big men wonder if they should even care about them. They want their life to count, but are not sure it really does.

In Jeremiah 6, the prophet challenges the people of Israel to:

“Stand at the crossroads and look;
ask for the ancient paths, ask
where the good way is, and walk in it,
and you will find rest for your souls.

He invites them to stop, ask for directions, and walk down an ancient path that will provide rest for their souls. How does a man navigate his way through the busyness and voices calling for his time and attention and make sure he is on the path towards a life of rest and significance?

Promise Keepers Canada invites you to pause your life for 24 hours and discover how to walk in the ancient path God promises will bring rest to your soul.

GPS will feature powerful music, speakers, and a dramatic presentation of “The Prodigal Trilogy” that will bring to life the greatness and grace of the Father.

Of course, there is more to this verse. The prophet records that "they would not listen." What a shame.

Are you man enough to stop and ask for directions, or will you just be like the people of Israel? No, I'm not suggesting you have to attend the event to heed this challenge from Jeremiah. However, I am suggesting that when you surround yourself with other men, you will discover you are not alone and will be encouraged to keep walking where the good way is.

Registrations are now open for GPS in Regina and Toronto.

In Honour of THE Father

2008-06-12T05:04:00.000-07:00

This Sunday is Father's Day. While I know that many of you will spend time honouring your dad, I want to encourage all of us to take some time to honour our Father in heaven who created you.

Psalm 139:14 "I praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made." (ESV)

Watch this video from Louie Giglio and marvel at how great your Father is. You have to watch the entire video to get the whole picture!!

Believing But Not Belonging

2008-06-11T07:32:00.001-07:00

According to recent surveys, Canada is a nation that has "believers" in Jesus, but people who do not like to belong (i.e. being regularly connected and committed to a local church). In addition, we have fewer men who believe in "a god."

I have to ask the question, can you really believe in Jesus and not belong? Yes, it's true that Christians can be known for doing some pretty dumb things. Yes, it's true that it can be frustrating to be around other Christians and around the church at times.

However, to believe in Jesus and to belong to Jesus also makes you part of something much bigger than yourself. Through Jesus, our relationship with God the Father is reconciled. But also through Jesus, we are made to be part of a larger story. The Scriptures use words like "body" and "bride" and "Kingdom" and "church" to help describe this unique dynamic.

I sometimes wonder if we have personalized the Gospel message so much that we have lost sight of the reality that Jesus died for His Church -- and is returning for His Bride ... not just for me.

When Jesus called the fishermen to follow Him, He did it collectively. Yes, they had to respond individually and personally, but He called them together and promised them they would achieve something greater -- together.

So, for those who think they can just "believe in Jesus" but they do not need to "belong" with a group of fellow believers -- I humbly ask you to read the Scriptures and grasp the calling and blessing to be part of a community of other followers of the Way. I humbly ask you to ask yourself the question, based on the Scriptures, can I say I follow Jesus but have nothing to do with the Bride of Jesus?

For as long as I have been alive (and I'm sure much longer), men have loved the idea of being part of a team. In a team, we can win together, and lose together. Some of my greatest moments in life have come when I'm part of a team. Maybe - just maybe - Jesus was on to something when He not only promised men they would have eternal greatness by following Him, but they would also do it together and empowered by the Holy Spirit.

Please understand what I am suggesting. It is only through Jesus that we are reconciled to God - nothing is more important than this. As long as we are on this earth, He has given us each other so that we can - together - fulfill the mandate of our King.

Believing In A God

2008-06-06T06:14:00.000-07:00

According to a recent survey by the Canadian Press and Decima-Harris, 72% of Canadians believe in "a god" while 23% said they do not believe in any god.

The article presented in the Globe and Mail goes on to say,

Keith Howard, a United church minister and executive director of the church's Emerging Spirit program, said the results of the new survey do not represent a dramatic change from previous polls about Canadians' beliefs.
"We are past the time of people trashing God," he said. "They are now trying to find a safe
place where they can nurture that spirituality."
He said a poll done for the church last year indicated Canada is a nation of believers, not
"belongers." Mr. Howard said his sense is that people who believe in a god increasingly imagine a nebulous but powerful force for good, rather than the traditional concept of a deity. Indeed, he likened the concept to that of the Force in the Star Wars movies.
A study quoted by Statistics Canada in 2006, found "adult Canadians attach a higher degree of importance to religion than religious attendance figures alone would indicate."
The study noted only one-third of adult Canadians attend religious services at least once a
month. But the study, conducted in 2002, found more than one-half engage in religious activities on their own at least on a monthly basis.

In addition, the study also noted:

67% of men said they believe in "a god."
Only 60% of those under age 25 say they believe in "a god."

Where do I begin? This will likely take a couple of posts to get through my thoughts on this topic.

I am quite surprised in multi-cultural and multi-religious Canada that only 72% of Canadians say they believe in any god at all. I have to wonder what percentage believe in the God who said that He alone is God? I wonder what percentage believe that Jesus Christ is God?

The fact that fewer men than women believe in "a god" is not surprising, and neither is the reality that the younger the person is whom you ask, the more likely they are to not believe in a god.

For the Christian, this presents a couple of unique challenges within our nation. First, for those who believe in "a god" we need to figure out a way to identify who or what that god is. This is what Paul does in Athens when discussing the "unknown god" and proclaiming the one true God (see Acts 17). Is it narrow minded to say that there is only one God? Yes, but that's not my problem. He said that about Himself. If I believe in Jesus Christ, then I must believe ALL He says about who God is. If someone has a problem with that, then the truth is that they have a problem with Jesus Himself, not with me.

For those people who do not believe in any god, we need to ask the question - who or what guides your life? What drives you? What motivates the decisions that you make? Even if they do not believe in "a god" the reality is that every person makes decisions based on something - even if it is their own self pleasure. In this case, that is who or what has become their god. An excellent book to help address those who consider themselves to be atheists is "The Truth Behind the New Atheism."

In the context of talking to men, I have to wonder if the cultural development of men as being self-sufficient, and/or their identity being found in their jobs or toys has created some of the challenge in men believing in "a god." To many, religion is seen as a crutch for the weak or an unnecessary additional task in life.

Yet, many men find themselves without a sense of significance or a sense of purpose. What is it about Jesus that He could walk up to a group of fishermen and say "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." More thoughts on this point in the next post.

Men Need Competition

2008-05-30T09:56:00.000-07:00

It was the bottom of the last inning, the bases were loaded, it was three balls and two strikes, and I was up to bat. This was my moment. With one swing of the bat I created enough wind power to provide hydro to my entire neighborhood. Unfortunately, the ball did not want to cooperate with me and I struck out. In what felt like slow motion, I slammed the bat to the ground and just yelled, "Oh no!!".

I was humiliated, and ashamed that I had failed in such a colossal way. Well, OK, it seemed like a big deal last night when it all happened.

We play in a league that is supposed to be "just for fun." While I enjoy having fun when I play ball, the only challenge is the competitive side of me always comes out as well.

I was too consumed in my own failure last night to notice how others reacted, but I have been around the church long enough to know that most men would not think about competition when they think about church or Christians. That is too bad.

Competition can be manifested in attitudes that are not appropriate, but that does not make competition in and of itself wrong. The Apostle Paul talks about life as a race, and that we are running towards a prize. He encourages us to run in such a way as to win the prize.

For those men who are competitive, the church would be doing itself a favor to harness the energy of these men towards the efforts of the Kingdom. Help them to build a church family that is something the rest of the community respects and looks to for spiritual guidance. Help them to be competitive for the souls of the people around them.

Next time you see your competitive side come out, ask yourself if this can be used for a greater purpose than striking out (or hitting a home run) at a baseball game.

Native Leaders Talking Circle

2008-05-27T08:48:00.000-07:00

Last week, I was privileged to participate in a National Native Leaders Talking Circle in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. The purpose of our time together was to gather First Nations leaders along with non-aboriginal leaders to pray, discuss, and learn from each other on how to continue the growth of ministry to the First Nations people in Canada.

I have to confess that the extent of ministry already taking place is something I was completely ignorant of. One of the challenges living in Canada is that we are not great at telling the stories of what God is already doing, and I was really encouraged to see that He is doing great things across Canada.

On the first day, I met a gentleman who told me, "Promise Keepers saved my life." He proceeded to tell me about how God reached into his life at a PK event and he became a believer and follower of Jesus Christ. From there, he shared his continued journey of realizing God's calling on his life. Today, he leads a ministry called Gospel for Samaria and is focused on raising funds to support native men to be pastors and leaders to their own people. It was so encouraging to meet him and some of the pastors he helps to support.

The reality is that many of the First Nations people are still dealing with significant hurts and pain for a variety of reasons. The Gospel message is bringing hope to their community.

This was really the next step in what will be an ongoing process of relationship and discovery for the ministry of Promise Keepers Canada. We know that God has called us to challenge every Canadian man, but we need to discern how to most effectively and efficiently relate to and serve the First Nations men across Canada along with other cultural groups that comprise this country we call home.

Please join me in thanking God for what He is already doing through faithful men and women who are serving the aboriginal people of Canada, and asking God for continued wisdom and direction for how Promise Keepers can be part of His work.

I'm Busy

2008-05-20T10:46:00.000-07:00

Ever said those words before? It feels like many of us are saying those words on a regular basis, and we say them so much that busy is not always associated as a good thing. In reality, the more we say those words, the more tired we become, and the less we enjoy day to day life.

Being busy is not necessarily a bad thing. We can and should enjoy the daily interactions with people and other responsibilities that we have. I wonder if the real issue is that we have lost the art and command of rest. Would we really see ourselves as being busy if we actually took time each week to rest? Would true rest turn our busyness from a chore to having the attitude of enjoying every moment of life?

I highly recommend Mark Buchanan's book - The Rest of God. As we approach the summer vacation months, this is a great book to enjoy and rediscover the strength found by resting as God designed us to.

Speaking of rest, tomorrow night I leave for Saskatoon to participate in what is being called a "Native Leaders Talking Circle." This dialogue on leadership development within the Native community is something I am really looking forward to participating in.

Last week, I met with some leaders from the inner city of Toronto to discuss how we can work together to mentor and disciple men in a community ravaged by fatherlessness and murder. Some initial thoughts have come together, and we will take the next year to continue to dialogue and build our strategy for the future.

The first edition of "Seven" arrives in our offices this week. This will be a great day in the life of the PK ministry.

So, as you can see, life is pretty dull right now.

I'm looking forward to some rest this summer.

Women I Admire

2008-05-07T15:48:00.000-07:00

Please forgive me for getting a little off topic for this post. Rather than the normal ramblings on PK or other issues related to men, I need to take a moment to acknowledge the two women I admire the most in this world.

First, my wife, Shannon. Shannon is a stay at home mom for our four kids (ages 5 to 12). I cannot begin to express how deeply grateful I am for a woman who supports me, encourages me, and is simply the best mom I could have ever imagined for my kids.

Second, my own mom. Mom has MS, has been through incredibly deep valleys in life, and yet her faith in Jesus and genuine love for others is her trademark and legacy. I will never forget all the times I would wake up in the morning to see my mom praying or reading her Bible.

To both of these women -- Happy Mother's Day. One day out of the year to express my love and appreciation for you does not seem to be quite enough.

Men - just remember, this Sunday is Mother's Day. Who are the women you admire? Why? What is your plan to honour them this weekend?

Random Thoughts on Faith & Life

2008-05-05T06:03:00.000-07:00

There is a lot going on right now in the world we live in that I could not decide where to start. Here are some random thoughts ...

What was he thinking?? An Austrian man holds his daughter captive for 24 years, and fathers seven children with her. I watched a feature on this story on Saturday night and just kept shaking my head at this one. I thought I had seen/heard everything twisted men could do when it comes to sex. This one was a new low.
Christian Horizons - a ministry that runs group homes for special needs children across Ontario, recently released someone who did not share their beliefs and ministry commitment (the former staff member declared themself to be a homosexual). A Human Rights Tribunal essentially ruled that they are not a Christian ministry, but are a social work. This ruling has interesting implications for Christians who want to facilitate ministry to the poor and oppressed in our nation. For a more detailed article on this story CLICK HERE
What really matters? I live in Ontario and we are facing some significant economic challenges right now. It is fascinating to see how passionate people become about something when it impacts them personally, but as Christians are we just as passionate about the millions of people around us who do not know Jesus, or the marriages and families falling apart around us?
Labels - why do we Christians love to give labels to things (denomination names, "Emergent", "Seeker sensitive", "Purpose driven", yes, even calling ourselves "Promise Keepers", etc.)? Why is it not good enough to say that I am a believer and follower of Jesus Christ?
Multicultural Canada - Canada continues to become more and more ethnically diverse. What are the implications to the traditional church in our nation, and to ministries like Promise Keepers? How do we become more effective at fulfilling the Great Commission and reach people of all nations?
Truth and Reconciliation - Canada is about to embark on a fascinating and intense journey where aboriginal people will tell their stories of life in residential schools. It was one of the dark periods in the history of our nation, and the pain that has resulted runs very deep and continues to impact our communities and families to this day. I hope and pray there can be healing and reconciliation to some degree. I have met several men who personally experienced residential schools. It sounds cliche for a Christian to say this, but I believe deeply in my heart that real truth, healing, and reconciliation will ultimately happen in the context of the Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Later this month, I have the privilege of meeting with many Christian First Nations leaders and look forward to seeing their perspective on the new Truth and Reconciliation Commission.
No more Canadian teams in the playoffs - Why does God despise Canadian NHL teams (that was a joke for you serious theological types)?

The Launch of Seven

2008-04-25T13:36:00.001-07:00

Inside scoop ... I have just received the draft copy of the first ever edition of Seven magazine. Here is a picture of the cover featuring NHL superstar Jarome Iginla. You do not want to miss this article featuring Elvis - Jarome's dad - and their story as father and son.

You can sign up to receive Seven by clicking here. If you were previously signed up to receive New Man magazine, you will automatically begin to receive Seven.

Or, you have a limited time offer to order bulk copies of Seven to distribute to men in your church for this Father's Day. Orders must be received by Monday, April 28th. CLICK HERE to order.

The first edition of Seven will be mailed to men across Canada in June.

Discipleship or False Conversion?

2008-04-22T08:46:00.000-07:00

Last weekend, fifty men gathered in Dryden, Ontario for Promise Keepers Canada's Discipleship Training Unleashed. This weekend, approximately the same number have sold out modules in Steinbach, Manitoba and Toronto, Ontario. This component of the PK Canada ministry is designed to disciple men, and equip them to mentor and disciple other men.

Over the course of this past year, we have seen this idea just explode as men across the nation exhibit an intense hunger to be trained and discipled in who God has designed them to be as men who follow Jesus Christ. We anticipate more than 20 similar weekends in the coming year.

This growing hunger for discipleship in men is exciting to see. This is why I was recently caught by surprise while reading a book written by Steve Gallagher (Pure Life Ministries). In this book - Standing Firm through the Great Apostasy - Steve makes the following personal observation:

"For many years I thought that the greatest problem in the Church today has been
a lack of discipleship. If pastors would just take the time to work with
individuals -- encouraging, exhorting, and training them -- most of the
carnality, worldliness and sin amongst Christians would evaporate. I have
since changed my thinking. The best discipleship in the world cannot help
an unconverted person become more godly. It would go a long way to help
those who have truly been converted, but I am convinced that much of the work
that goes on in the Church today is the attempt to make unbelievers act like
believers. Vast multitudes of professing Christians have never bowed their
knee to the Christ they claim to follow. If they are unconverted, the best
they can hope to accomplish is to try and please God in the flesh -- something
that the Apostle Paul said was impossible (Romans 8:8).

Now, those of you who are reading this probably have a reaction that is one extreme or the other. You may be upset that someone would dare to question whether most people who attend church are indeed believers in and followers of Jesus Christ. On the other extreme, if you have a tendency to be more negative about all things church, you are probably doing a happy dance that someone is calling the church out in this kind of way.

I will give Gallagher credit on this - he does use a lot of Scripture and he speaks throughout the book with a spirit of humility (from what I have seen so far ... I'm only about a third of the way through the book). He makes a strong case for the kind of fruit one should see in the lives of true believers in Jesus.

As a leader in ministry, I am trying to reconcile the perspective and opinion Gallagher brings to the table with what we are experiencing in the lives of men across Canada.

Ultimately, Jesus never told us to make converts - we are called to make disciples (Matthew 28:19,20). If we are dealing with people who never were believers in Jesus (in the true, biblical meaning of the word believe), then that is the starting point in helping them become disciples. If we are dealing with believers, then our calling is to help them continue their journey in following Jesus.

Either way - it's still discipleship, and it is still the mission Jesus has given to everyone who is part of His Kingdom.

As for the Church, since it is an organism and not an organization, then all of us bear responsibility if there is indeed a lack of discipleship taking place. Pastors and leaders are humans who can only do so much. The command from Jesus was not to them - it was to all of us.

This week, ask yourself the question, "How am I making disciples of Jesus?"

GameDay Finishes for the Spring

2008-04-14T09:48:00.000-07:00

We just completed our final GameDay Regional Men's Conference for this spring with about 500 men gathered together in St. Thomas, Ontario. This series of events were a unique blend of the National Conference experience and smaller workshops on various issues that men could choose to attend. This spring, GameDay had stops in Ottawa, Medicine Hat, Edmonton, Richmond, and St. Thomas.

While I was not in attendance at all of the events, the St. Thomas event was a special experience. I had so many individual discussions with men where they told me about specific things God was doing in their life and struggles they were having. Men poured to the front on Friday night and Saturday afternoon for prayer in some areas of their life.

St. Thomas was also bittersweet because it was the final time for Marc Brule to be involved in leading worship music at a PK event. The men gave Marc and his family a well deserved standing ovation on Friday night, and together we asked God's blessing on the next chapter of Marc's ministry.

Now, we are moving full steam ahead with our conference plans for the fall months -- God willing, we will also feature some GameDay events this fall in new cities while continuing our large, National Conferences in strategic locations across the country.

Things do not settle down, though. The next several weeks features the continued growth of Discipleship Training Unleashed (DTU) - where hundreds of men continue the journey of maturing spiritually in key areas of manhood and being equipped to make disciples. Pastors who are getting their men involved in this are testifying not only of the difference it is making in men, but in the life of the church as men are getting involved in mentoring and discipling others and allowing the pastor to have fewer fires to put out.

Please be in prayer for the entire team at PK Canada -- we are excited, but we also need to make sure we are focused and in the centre of God's will.

Devoted

2008-04-08T11:22:00.000-07:00

A couple of weeks ago, Patrick Roy's son (who also happens to play for the junior team Patrick coaches), lost it and got into a rather nasty fight with someone from the opposing team. For days, newspapers in Quebec were filled with stories about what happened, why it happened, and what the authorities should do about it. It was HUGE.

This week, the NHL playoffs begin. There are men who have to put their family on notice that for the next 2+ months, they will be occupied each evening.

Almost everyone I know is devoted to something. For some, it's hockey and for others it is their job or family. Nothing wrong with any of these activities.

I just finished reading in Acts 2 and it said that the early followers of Jesus were devoted to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship. The word devoted means what it says -- to be focused on something.

While I do not expect those who do not know Jesus to be devoted to these things, my bigger question is whether this is what those who follow Jesus are devoted to today. Are we devoted to studying, understanding, and practicing the teaching of Jesus and are we devoted to fellowship with each other as Christians?

The early Christians did not stop to check their schedule or say, "I'm going to have to pray about going to that." It was just second nature to being in the company of other Christians.

The early Christians did not trust the latest book on the market over the Word of God itself. They were devoted to the teachings.

What are we devoted to?

In Acts 2, it describes thousands of people coming to know and follow Jesus. Today, statistics will tell you that the population is growing faster than the number of new Christians, and so, in essence, the movement of those who believe and follow Jesus is getting smaller in Canada.

Hmmm.
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Last weekend, we held an event in Richmond, BC. The guys there had an awesome time, and it was great to be back in British Columbia. More and more opportunities are opening up there, and we are excited to see what God has planned.

This weekend is the final GameDay event for this spring as we head to St. Thomas, Ontario. If you have not registered yet, there is still some space available. Visit http://www.promisekeepers.ca/ for more details.

Did Jesus Pull An April Fool's Joke?

2008-04-01T07:07:00.000-07:00

Earlier today, I was reading from Matthew 11:28. In this passage, Jesus says, "Come to me, all who are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

Now, anyone with just a passing knowledge of Christianity understands that it is not a call to an easy life. Jesus was often seen and heard calling his followers to a life of sacrifice and suffering. He tells us that we have to lose our life in order to gain life. We are called to make disciples, help the poor and widows, use our gifts to strengthen the Church, work hard for our employer, and the fairly significant calling to father our children and love our wife as Christ loved the church. These things hardly sound like rest. Anyone else tired just from reading the list, never mind living it out?

So, in Matthew 11, is this just some joke Jesus is playing?

I think, like pretty much everything in the Bible, we have to gain some context to better understand what He was trying to say. Here is what I get when I look at the whole context.

First, Jesus is talking about rest for our soul, not just physical rest (although that is covered elsewhere in Scripture under the banner of Sabbath). In context, He is talking about the rest of knowing with certainty that God is your Father. People around the world are restless and weary because they are trying to prove something to God in the hopes that God will love them, protect them, etc. Jesus is offering rest from that work and burden.

Second, Jesus says that this type of rest comes from being like a child towards God. It's not the first time He's said this. The innocence of a child trusting His parents -- sometimes kicking and screaming -- but deep down knowing that my Father has my best interest in mind as His child.

Third, it's rest that comes through Jesus and abiding with Him. Many people will take vacations in the coming weeks and months. But we will really fill our time with other activities and stay just as busy. This kind of rest for our soul comes only when we actually abide with and in Jesus.

No April Fool's Joke here. Just Jesus' answer to a common problem for most people I know -- including myself.

What Ultimate Fighting Can Teach Christian Men

2008-03-26T07:18:00.000-07:00

You do not have to be a fan of Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) to know the name "Ultimate Fighting." Over the past few years this blend of boxing, wrestling, and martial arts has exploded in North America, and is regularly breaking pay per view records.

Young men between the ages of 18-34 are the primary audience of Ultimate Fighting. That same age group is (as we have discussed before) noticeably absent from anything related to Christianity.

Some who are reading this are bound to get upset over the violence of MMA. Some may even feel like I am trying to glorify it.

What I want to ask you to consider is this - what is MMA able to do that captures the hearts of these young men that the average church and/or ministry is not able to do?

Earlier today, I was listening to a podcast from a pastor who will remain anonymous simply because I have not asked his permission to quote him in this blog. He made a couple of observations about MMA, and I thought I would share them with you.

First, we can learn that men love a good fight. The question for Christian men to deal with is whether we are helping men to see the spiritual fight they are engaged in and how they can win that fight through the power of Jesus Christ. Do we present Christianity as a battle or do we shy away from the messy part of the battle and simply declare nice platitudes about being a Christian?

Second, we can teach men that - unlike the world of MMA - real power does not come from being able to show physical force on someone else. Men do not need to get their sense of manhood from how bad they can hurt someone. We can take a man's desire for strength and power and show him how to use that for God's glory as part of the spiritual battle they are engaged in.

We can simply dismiss MMA, or we can learn from it and understand where many younger men are at today and allow God to show us how to meet them where they are at while helping them to move forward in following the steps of the real ultimate fighter for the souls of men -- Jesus Christ.

Did Jesus Really Exist?

2008-03-17T06:18:00.000-07:00

Easter week. Passion Week. Whatever you want to give as a title for this week when Christians all around the world will remember and celebrate the death and resurrection of a man named Jesus, one thing is for certain - your television will feature various news reports or specials examining whether Jesus really existed. Even if you believe He existed as a historical figure, there will be many who will have a variety of theories as to who He really was/is and why He matters or doesn't matter to the human race.

There has been a rise of new atheism in the world today, and an increasing scrutiny of the man I call my Lord, Saviour, and King -- Jesus Christ. What is a man to do with all of this?

For one, I think we can and should be equipped to defend our faith in this man named Jesus. The Bible tells us to "be prepared to give an answer." One tool to help you do that is a book we carry at PK called "Who Made God ... And Answers to Over 100 Other Tough Questions of Faith."

Yet, the Scriptures teach that this requires a question being asked of us in order for us to have something to defend.

Perhaps that is the biggest problem -- is anyone even asking the questions? Do the followers of "the Way -- Jesus" make enough noise in the culture where people are forced to ask the question about who this Man is?

In Matthew 5, Jesus tells His new disciples - in one of their first official "Seminary classes" - that they are the light of the world. This group of men with an incredible diversity in careers that were somewhat insignificant or even looked down on, were called the light of the world before they had even done anything in the name of Jesus. What did Jesus mean by this? Well, He goes on to say "let your light so shine before others so that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven."

Jesus equated shining light with good works. Our good works - our acts of love and justice and mercy towards others - help to create the questions where we can boldly proclaim and defend the message of Jesus to others and invite others to become His disciples/followers as well. That is our mission.

This week, as you prepare for Easter, consider how your life can be a living example that Jesus really exists. This coming long weekend, be intentional to do something with your family and other followers of Jesus to let your light shine. That is perhaps the greatest way you can honour all that He did for you on the cross and the greatest way to celebrate that He did not stay there, but He is alive and offers life to all who would come to Him.

He Really Hears Me!

2008-03-08T14:56:00.000-08:00

I am sitting in my hotel room less than one hour after the completion of our National Men's Conference in Winnipeg. What an amazing time we had. Once again, the flashlights came out at Pure Power and men really caught that God has designed them to be the light of the world Jesus said we are.

Why do almost 2,000 guys meet together for 24 hours of music, preaching, videos, and hanging out with other guys? I've been doing this for almost 13 years, and I am convinced it is nothing short of God at work to get the attention of men.

As one man said to me, "could you imagine a million men shining their lights into the darkness of the sky?" I could imagine it, and I get chills just thinking about the influence that many men in our country could have in their homes, workplaces, churches, and communities.

Another man came and told me how he was not going to attend this weekend. It was his first PK event. He did not have the finances to pay for a registration. He prayed and asked God to provide if He wanted him to attend the event. Shortly before the event, he was offered a free ticket from a pastor who had an extra one from their church group. He came to the event. With tears in his eyes after we were all done, he looked at me and said, "I realized this week, that God really hears me." It was one of those "Aha" moments where a man recognizes he is more than just a pawn or a failure, but he has a Father who loves him deeply.

This was also a bittersweet event for me. For the past 12 years, I have had the privilege of working closely with Marc Brule - our National Worship Leader. Marc is a brother and mentor, but he is most importantly a man I count as a dear friend. God has called Marc to other ministry opportunities, and this weekend was his last event leading worship for PK. Marc and I have been through a lot together, and I'm forever grateful to God for allowing our paths to cross. I already miss him, but know that God has something special in store.

I'm exhausted. I'm about to return home to 30cm+ of snow. I'm taking a week off for holidays. But for today and for this moment, I am just profoundly humbled and grateful to be a small part of what our God is doing in this nation. We are on the winning team.

Thank you to everyone who helped make this event possible. Our volunteer team, Church of the Rock, sponsors, and staff are a living example of what it looks like when the Body of Christ comes together for the common purpose of seeing lives transformed by His awesome grace and power.

Our God is "Mighty to Save."

Moving on from New Man Magazine

2008-02-29T12:53:00.000-08:00

Over the past year, we have been examining the potential of launching a Christian magazine for Canadian men. For several years, New Man Magazine has been distributed by PK Canada to thousands of men across the nation as part of our WiseChoices program.

More and more men started to comment to us that they really wanted a Canadian alternative to New Man. While we are grateful to Strang Communications in Florida for partnering with us on New Man, we are excited at a new partnership we have formed with ChristianWeek here in Canada to present our very own, Promise Keepers Canada magazine.

Seven will be launched just in time for Father's Day this year. If you were receiving New Man magazine before, you will automatically begin to receive Seven. In the coming weeks, you will learn more at our events, mailings, and website on how you can make sure you are receiving this uniquely Christian magazine for Canadian men.

I have been involved in the planning process for this and am excited at the variety of topics, columns, and features. We have a fantastic Editorial Advisory Board developed and together we are working to provide a high quality magazine that will faithfully and with excellence represent Jesus to our nation (think a Christian version of Men's Journal magazine).

Our desire is that this will be the kind of magazine you can learn and grow from spiritually, but also have content you would want to show to someone you work with or a neighbour.

Here is a draft copy of the first cover for Seven. The picture and content will change (even for the first issue) -- the purpose of this draft copy is to finalize the banner at the top and the overall look of the cover for each edition.

We are excited to bring this to the men of Canada, and hope you will be too!

Stay tuned for more details.

Lost Luggage

2008-02-26T08:28:00.000-08:00

We had a fantastic time in Medicine Hat. The event had a larger than normal ratio of younger men attending, which always makes it exciting and a blessing. We saw God do a deep work in the hearts of many men.

I always fly home on Sunday morning after an event. My desire is to get home as soon as possible to reconnect with my family. I arrived at the Medicine Hat airport in time to find out that my flight was delayed due to fog. This would result in my missing the connecting flight out of Calgary. At first, I was told I would not get out of Calgary until Monday (something that would go over really well with my wife and four kids). Then, I found out that they booked me on a flight at 4:15 pm, but could not guarantee I would get out of Medicine Hat in time to get to that flight either.

Mark and Gerald - our two key leaders in Medicine Hat, offered to drive me to Calgary (3 hours one way) so I could catch the 4:15 pm flight.

It is really easy when your day does not unfold the way you thought it would to get discouraged and even mad. I confess, that's where I was at first. Once I realized that there was nothing that could be done, my attitude needed to change so I could enjoy what God was putting in front of me for the day. So, here is where my day started to turn around.

I was able to attend and enjoy worship at First Assembly in Medicine Hat - with Ian Nairn and the band from our event leading the worship that morning. That was a real treat for me. From there, to be able to hang out for three hours with a couple of guys I highly respect and to brainstorm about PK was also a blessing. Last, I sat next to a wonderful elderly couple on my flight home. They were on their way to Argentina for a golf vacation.

Now ... if only the airline (who shall remain nameless) can find my luggage.

It was somewhat ironic when I pulled in my drive way at home (around midnight) that the song on the radio was "So You Had a Bad Day."

If you are near a GameDay event, make sure you're there - they are a great experience!

So Did You Hear About the Pastor in Florida??

2008-02-21T15:54:00.000-08:00

A pastor in Florida has taken to a whole new level the challenge to prevent marriages from falling apart. Pastor Paul Wirth has challenged his married congregants to have sex every day for 30 days as a way to build a stronger marriage relationship (click here for more).

Not sure what to make of this one. I applaud the efforts to save marriages, and I can hear men in his church cheering out loud. I'm not sure how the women will respond, but my guess is that most would rather have their husband clean the house and do the dishes for 30 days straight.

Bottom line is that sex is obviously an important part of building a strong marriage relationship, but so are a ton of other things.

Scriptures teach us to "Love our wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her." So, our calling is to be willing to sacrifice to death for her and also live for her.

I know, not what you wanted to hear, but we need a holistic view of marriage, not just the things we as men think need to be fixed.

On another note, I'm in Medicine Hat right now getting ready for GameDay 08. We're going to have a great time this weekend, and if you are in the neighborhood, stop by. I'll let you know next week how things go.

Child-Man Part 2

2008-02-12T08:04:00.000-08:00

Before getting to today's thoughts, some good news to share.

Registrations for events in several cities have really started to come pouring in, and we are tracking towards another SOLD OUT event in Winnipeg for Pure Power. Other cities are also doing really well. Get together with some of your friends and enjoy a weekend with other men working together towards God's design for our lives in this crazy world.

I'm also thrilled to share with you about the continued growth of Discipleship Training Unleashed. This modular program is building and empowering men to mentor other men. We are already SOLD OUT for our next module in London, Ontario later this spring and more cities are coming on board to host this new and very personal experience from PK Canada.
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Child-Man Part 2
I will admit that I'm not an expert on this because I've not yet seen my kids mature into adults. My oldest son, Carter, just turned twelve so we're facing a whole other set of issues in life right now. That said, my generation is the first generation to grow up through our entire life with video games, computers, colour and cable TV, etc.

There are some great lessons my parents taught me and some great practical steps they put in place that helped me become the man I am today. I do have a lot of guilty pleasures (playing video games, long hours on the computer, and watching TV amongst them), but these things do not control my life or my agenda in life.

Why are some men stuck being a little boy? Here are some thoughts:

1. We're afraid of growing up!
John Eldredge has made popular the phrase "You have what it takes" and believes every man is wired in such a way that he needs to know this. Growing up comes with a lot of responsibility - whether you are married or not. I wonder if some men are haunted by this question deep in their soul and simply need the encouragement of their father, mother and other godly people. I think most of us need to know someone believes in us. More importantly, most men need to know that God the Father blesses them for who they are as His son, not just for what they do.

2. A Culture of Reset Not Consequences
A friend of mine told me about a study he read about some of the consequences of a video game mindset. One of those consequences is that people have grown up believing that there aren't any real consequences to my action or inaction in life. When things don't go well, I just hit the reset button and start all over again. If this is true, think about the impact on marriage, jobs, churches, etc. For boys to become men, they have to recognize there are consequences for their actions or inactions and hitting the reset button isn't quite as simple in real life as it is with a video game.

3. They See Manhood as Boring
I really believe this happens when we are limited in our view of what it means to be a man. Jesus has invited us to follow Him and experience life in all its fullness. The adventure of following Jesus is something most young men have not really grasped. In the men around them, they see it as a responsibility rather than something filled with risk and reward. I wonder if we also need to spend more time helping young men to grasp the rewards God will give to His children one day for their faithful service to Him here on this earth.

4. You Are What You Eat ... or something like that
OK - that's the only phrase I could come up with. Here is the reality, the surroundings we are in play a big part in the men we become. The people we hang out with, the perceived duties we have in life, and the attitudes or talents we learn from others are shaping us each and every day. Christians need to regain joy in their life, and parents need to make it a priority to surround their kids with people who love Jesus with everything they have. I think our consumer mindset has made us look for programs in churches rather than look for people who love God with everything they have. I'm not confident a program or even a church will rub off on my kids, but I am confident that passionate Christians will.

I'm sure there's more we could discuss, and I'm sure we'll continue to learn more along the way. The question I'm still wrestling with is how to motivate a man who is already a "Child-Man" because I already know a few of these. If you come up with anything, please let me know.

Child-Man: Do Men Really Want to Grow Up?

2008-02-06T05:16:00.000-08:00

City Journal recently featured an essay called "Child-Man In the Promised Land" by Kay Hymowitz. This article argues that single young men are caught in a state of perpetual childhood/adolescence. Here is a portion of what she had to say:

...the new SYM [single young male]... he’s immature because he can be. We can argue endlessly about whether “masculinity” is natural or constructed—whether men are innately promiscuous, restless, and slobby, or socialized to be that way—but there’s no denying the lesson of today’s media marketplace: give young men a choice between serious drama on the one hand, and Victoria’s Secret models, battling cyborgs, exploding toilets, and the NFL on the other, and it’s the models, cyborgs, toilets, and football by a mile. For whatever reason, adolescence appears to be the young man’s default state, proving what anthropologists have discovered in cultures everywhere: it is marriage and children that turn boys into men. Now that the SYM can put off family into the hazily distant future, he can—and will—try to stay a child-man. Yesterday’s paterfamilias or Levittown dad may have sought to escape the duties of manhood through fantasies of adventures at sea, pinups, or sublimated war on the football field, but there was considerable social pressure for him to be a mensch. Not only is no one asking that today’s twenty- or thirtysomething become a responsible husband and father—that is, grow up—but a freewheeling marketplace gives him everything that he needs to settle down in pig’s heaven indefinitely.

I do not think this is limited to just single men, as I could name several married men (some in their 40's and 50's) who still act as though they are fifteen years old.

Now, I like video games and the internet as much as anyone. So, I do not think these are the big problem. The bigger question we should be asking is why are these young men satisfied with living life vicariously through a game rather than living life? How do parents and churches try to help these young men "put away childish things and become a man"? What are the results to a society where it is a learned behavior to hit the reset button when things do not turn out the way we wanted them to?

There are no easy answers to this discussion. Next time, we'll talk about what others are suggesting and give some of our own perspective.

Cheering for the Underdog

2008-02-04T06:15:00.000-08:00

Well, the big game is now complete. Yes, I'll admit it - the results of the football game surprised me. I was sure the Patriots would blow out the Giants. I still have a grudge against the Giants from Super Bowl XXV when they beat my beloved Buffalo Bills (Scott Norwood - wide right!), but somehow I found myself cheering for the Giants for the first time ever.

I think what it boils down to is that just about everyone loves to cheer for the underdog (unless you are a die hard Patriots fan like some of my friends are). For all Patriots fans who are out there - suck it up - it's only a football game.

Anyways, back to the underdog.

Why do we love to cheer for the underdog? I'm not sure, but something makes me wonder if it is because we can relate better to the underdog - the idea that anyone can overcome the odds stacked against them.

In Matthew 17, there is an interesting story about a man who comes to Jesus and asks Jesus to heal his son - because the disciples failed to accomplish the task. Jesus, in what one can almost imagine to be a moment of exhasparation, says, "How long am I to bear with you?" He heals the son, and everything is good.

The disciples pull Jesus aside and ask Him the tough question - "Why couldn't we do this? When we tried, it failed." Jesus then responds with the famous words "If you have faith like a mustard seed ... nothing will be impossible for you."

I've heard these words quoted and used for all kinds of grand plans and projects that Christians are undertaking. All we need is faith, and nothing is impossible. Yet, over and over again, I see projects failing and success disappearing.

Christians are truly underdogs - we can't measure up to the greatness of the God we serve. Yet, Jesus said that nothing will be impossible for us. Why then, does the underdog continue to fail? Is it because we don't have enought faith? How do you measure how much faith you have?

Two thoughts on this:

First, I think the real issue is that our faith is misplaced faith. We have lots of faith, but that faith is in ourselves. The disciples' focus was "Why couldn't we get the job done?" The father who came to Jesus recognized Jesus as Lord immediately. The right amount of faith placed in the wrong person still equals failure.

Second, we also have a misplaced purpose for our faith. Why do we want to be victorious here? Why do we want this project or program to succeed? How many times is the purpose of what we're doing - when really examined - is to build our own security? We may have a ton of faith, but if our purpose is not in line with God's purpose, then that faith will not be realized.

How do you know what God's purpose is? Over and over again in Scripture, we see that God's purpose as it relates to humans is for people to be set free. That was the purpose of Jesus in relation to this man and his son. Ultimately, that is why God the Father sent His Son to earth - so we could be free from being slaves to sin and be reconciled to Him.

I love cheering for the underdog. More than that, I love being the underdog. The great news about being a son of God is that He is on your side, and you can do all things through Jesus Christ.

Tough Men for Tough Times

2008-01-30T05:04:00.000-08:00

Last week, I received a prayer request from Bill Innes - our Southwestern Ontario Regional Coordinator. Bill was asking for some prayer regarding some issues related to the just completed Discipleship Training Unleashed module in London (attended by a SOLD OUT group of 50+ men).

After I responded to Bill's email, he emailed me back and made a comment something like this, "This is what separates the men from the boys."

It is no secret that we are in an interesting time period as a nation right now. Weather patterns are bizarre (even for Canada), the economy is certainly facing some challenges (just ask my RSP that goes up and down like a yo-yo), families and marriages face increased tension in their relationships, the inner cities of Canada are increasingly violent, and many different cultural groups are increasingly isolated.

In Joshua 1, the children of Israel were facing uncertain times as well. They had just lost their leader, Moses, and were at a crossroads in their 80+ year saga of wilderness vs. Promised Land. God says these words two times to Joshua "be strong and courageous."

... for you will cause the people to inherit the land.

... to do all that the law of Moses commanded you.

Then, the officers of the people say the same thing to Joshua (v. 18) - "be strong and courageous."

Is God looking for some men to be strong and courageous during these challenging times? I believe so.

As a ministry, we are committed to not only calling men to be strong and courageous, but to also walking with them each day to live that out. The coming few weeks are really busy for PK, but not just busy for the sake of busy. God is definitely doing something in men's lives and is separating the men from the boys.

Here are a couple of key things God has already been doing in the last couple of weeks:

We're coming back to British Columbia! It has been years since we last did an event in BC, and for a while, we were not sure we were going to be able to this year. But God answered prayer for a host facility for our event, and now GameDay is coming to Richmond, BC. We are excited to see what kind of strong and courageous men He's building in this area of Canada.

More than 50 men attended Discipleship Training in London, Ontario and are well on their way to being trained to begin to mentor other men. Another 30 men are scheduled to begin their training in Mississauga, Ontario this weekend.

Our brand new magazine -- "7" is going to be launched later this spring. We just finished another meeting pulling together the details for this exciting new venture to help encourage men beyond the event.

Visit http://www.promisekeepers.ca/ for more information on upcoming activities and resources to help you be strong and courageous.

The Success Trap

2008-01-23T06:35:00.000-08:00

Late yesterday afternoon (Eastern time), it was announced that actor Heath Ledger was found dead in his apartment. Ledger was 28 years old, and already had a pretty impressive resume of movies to his name. Later this year, he is featured as The Joker in a new version of Batman -- "The Dark Knight."

While the cause of death is not yet certain, it is widely rumored to be a drug overdose. The other question is whether or not it was accidental.

The sad reality of this story is that it is not an isolated incident. Too many famous and not so famous people often become disillusioned and overwhelmed in their own "success." The public has been fascinated with the downfall of Britney Spears, and in sports, we see Roger Clemens trying to clear his own name from steroid allegations.

The Success trap isn't always about being famous, either. Sometimes, it is just for the sake of getting more stuff.

What cost are you willing to pay in order to be successful? What is your measure of success?

Jesus' standard of success is this: "Well done, good and faithful servant." (Matthew 25:21 & 23)

Faithfulness. This word takes the pressure off people who are driven and says to them - just be faithful with what I have given to you. Enjoy it. Work hard at your work and your relationships, but enjoy them. For those who are more laid back (or lazy as my friend likes to call them), faithfulness stretches you and pushes you out of your comfort zones in order to be faithful.

We often want more out of life, but God says that He will give us more as we are faithful in what He's already given to us.
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Training faithful men is what Promise Keepers Canada is all about. This weekend, approximately 50 men have SOLD OUT our Discipleship Training Unleashed in London, Ontario. This 1 year journey is all about mentoring men to mentor and disciple other men. We are seeing this focus of ministry just explode in different areas of Canada as men desire to be faithful to who and what God has created them to be. These men are then taking what they have learned and sharing it with other men for a grassroots ripple effect of faithful men being established across this nation.

We are excited about this opportunity to help men be counter cultural and redefine success in our society.

For more information on upcoming Discipleship Training Unleashed modules, please visit www.promisekeepers.ca

Do Men Care?

2008-01-18T05:47:00.000-08:00

One of the longstanding challenges that has faced the ministry of PK, is the challenge to raise the consciousness of church leaders to the need of ministering to men. Earlier this week, I met with a leader from a major Christian organization in Canada and asked the question, "How often, in your experience, do ministry leaders consider the needs of men in their planning?"

The answer, "Generally, they don't."

A few years ago, I met with a denominational leader and asked him why the denomination had something for every type of person in the church, except for men. His answer, they do have something for men - a leadership development program.

I responded, "but what about those men who are not leaders?" Silence.

This is not meant to be a rant on church leaders. I'm an Elder in my own church, and believe me, I know there are a million things trying to get their attention. If anything, God has called us to pray for and submit to those in authority in our churches.

In twelve years working for PK, over and over again I have heard church leaders indicate that men really don't care while others in the church really do want to grow. They find it challenging to get men to participate, attend activities, and recognize that they need spiritual development.

For those leaders who are committed to walking with men - thank you! Keep pressing on, because God will honour your faithful service to Him. Do not give up on the men.

The greater question is -- do men really care that many ministries and churches do not place a high priority on helping them to grow in Christ based on the unique challenges they face as men?

Facing Tough Times

2008-01-14T07:20:00.000-08:00

I live in the Toronto area, and this weekend the newspapers have been buzzing about the coming demise of the leadership of the Toronto Maple Leafs (insert your favourite Leaf joke here). You really have to live in southern Ontario to experience the incredible passion and intensity people have when talking about the Leafs. There is no question, this is an organization facing tough times.

How do you respond when facing tough times? The media is filled with stories about the tough times many people are facing today. Frankly, the state of the Maple Leafs pales in comparison to people losing their jobs, personal debt becoming too much to bear, the threat of a recession, or the health of loved ones.

Imagine being the families of 8 teenage basketball players and a teacher in New Brunswick who were tragically killed in car accident this past weekend. It was heart breaking to see those families on the news last night, and to realize that a father and mother will never see their son again. These are tough times for those families and countless others who have lost loved ones lately.

Where is God in all of this?

"This is my comfort in my affliction; that your promise gives me life."
Psalm 119:50

In our tough times, God's promises give us life. Read God's Word - find His promises - hold on to Him.

Making sense of tough times is impossible. You will never make sense of them. Rather than putting your energy into trying to make sense of the tough times, I encourage you to put your energy into God's promise for you.
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GameDay is a series of upcoming events from PK that reminds us that in real life - every day is Game Day (not just every few days like pro athletes). We believe God wants to encourage those facing tough times, and equip all of us as men to face everything that life wants to throw our way - and be champions in good times and bad times. GameDay is an opportunity for you to better understand God's promise for you.

For more information on these very personal events with workshops on various topics, check out www.promisekeepers.ca

The Bucket List - Part 2

2008-01-10T11:32:00.000-08:00

There is something to be said about the idea of having a "bucket list." I have yet to meet a man who does not have some inner dream he would like to accomplish before he leaves this earth.

The sad reality is that most of us have buried that dream somewhere due to all of life's circumstances and issues taking over. Why does this happen? Is it alright for a man to not only dream, but also strive to live out those dreams? We'll look more at that the next time.

Perhaps the more important story behind the story is the friendship forged by these two men. While I have not yet seen the move, I wonder if they find greater joy in their friendship with each other than they do in actually fulfilling their "bucket list."

Very few men have a good close friend they can trust with their life. Yet, I think that if most men were honest, they would love to have another guy they could just hang out with, and accomplish great things with. Most men build friendship by doing difficult things together (part of the reason why competitive team sports are something many men enjoy).

The sad truth is that the daily routine of work, commute, sleep, eat (oh yeah, don't forget family and church, too) takes its toll to the point where men do not want or have the energy to invest in building a great friendship with another guy.

I believe that men are missing something in their life when they don't have other men they can call a true friend. The ability to endure and "Press On" will often come from the encouragement of others, but if others do not know you are stuck, how can they encourage you?

The reasons why men need friends are too long for this blog. I do know that the only way to build the friendship is to start by taking another look at your schedule and adjusting things so you can enjoy some time with other men.

A great way to start ... invite some guys to go out with you to see a movie and then go out for coffee afterwards.

"The making of friends, who are real friends, is the best token we have of a man's success in life."- Edward Everett Hale

The Bucket List - Part 1

2008-01-06T13:17:00.000-08:00

From time to time, I want to talk about movies that may be of interest to men. I'll make the official "just because we talk about it doesn't mean we endorse it" announcement up front.

"The Bucket List" features Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson and features two men - nearing the end of their life - who forge a friendship with each other and try to do the things they always wanted to do, but never got a chance to do it. Hence the title.

I have a few thoughts on this concept, but for now enjoy the trailer. I'll pick this up next time.

Is It Time to Change?

2008-01-04T08:24:00.000-08:00

The U.S. Presidential campaign is well under way, and with it, a group of individuals who all proclaim and promise great change for America. Every election in every democratic nation produces the same promises, and ultimately, the public falls in line and votes for who they think can bring the greatest change.

What is it about this word that brings such a varied response from people? Why do we want change in some circumstances, but not in others?

Like most men, there are things in my life I would like to see changed. And, like most men, that change is usually someone else's problem. There are things I'd like to see change in my church, my job, in my wife, kids, etc.

It would appear that change is something many of us consider to be important for others to make for my benefit. I wonder how many of us consider the change we need to make for the benefit of others?

Someone is bound to say, "I'm always changing, but no one is changing for me." This begs the question of why I should change. What is our motivation?

"Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ." Philippians 3:8

Change must come out of a desire to be more like Christ - not to try and convince others to change for me.

Press On toward the mark. Be like Jesus. Ask Him to show you one thing in your life that needs to change, and change it.

The Little Boy In Every Man

2008-01-01T11:19:00.001-08:00

Happy New Year! Today is usually the day for U.S. College football bowl games, but as I write this post, there are 73,000 people watching an outdoor hockey game in snow covered (and windy), Buffalo, New York.

I loved watching the look on the faces of the players - most of them reliving their years of learning the game of hockey on frozen ponds, rivers, and lakes. It is highly unlikely any of them ever dreamed they would play a game in a football stadium in front of that many people.

Here is the cool thing about the game today ... grown men (players and fans alike), get to be like kids again.

What is it about sports that brings out the little boy in men? Why are so many of us so serious and "grown up" in the rest of life, but sports (ok, and maybe a good video game), can make us become like kids again?

Jesus once said,

“Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 18:3 & 4

Hmmm. You want to be great or have a life of significance? Jesus said, humble yourself like a child. I wonder what it would look like for grown men to "become like children" as they follow Jesus?

Opening a New Chapter

2007-12-30T12:30:00.000-08:00

Did you enjoy your Christmas or just survive it? It seems like my body has finally digested all the food from Christmas, and now the New Year is upon us - with another party to refill myself with some great junk food. I have a feeling that French Fries will be off the diet for a few weeks in 2008.

The new year is always a great opportunity for men to open a new chapter in life. I am not a big "resolutions" kind of guy - mostly because it does not take me long to break my resolutions. However, it does seem like everything starts again on January 1st.

Our blog is going to take a bit of a different direction in the days ahead as well. Yes, we will continue to comment on news at PK, but we will also give some thoughts about various challenges facing men and try to give some encouragement for men to press on. We will also try to feature what others are saying about men and manhood - just to give a broad perspective on things.

Happy New Year's to everyone! May 2008 be a year of blessing and may you continue to Press On!

It Was Pure Power in Mississauga

2007-11-13T09:36:00.000-08:00

When you sit in an office and pray and plan and try to organize an event, you can often visualize things, but you never really know what is going to happen until it actually happens.

It has now been a couple of days since Pure Power in Mississauga, and I'm not sure I have had the opportunity to process everything God did during this event. At a personal level, I had friends and family whose lives have been forever impacted by God's grace. There is a man I've been praying for over the last several months, and on Friday night, He heard and saw the Gospel message presented in a powerful way. Today, I now call him a brother in Christ as he responded to the great message of grace.

There are so many highlights. Let me just share some of the testimonies we've received so far:

Somewhere over the weekend, I heard a comment something like this:
‘there really isn’t much mystery to Christianity. The true ”mystery”,
is how the gospels unfold in our lives’. Well, I saw a lot ‘unfold’ over
the weekend. It was the most memorable PK event I have ever had the
pleasure to be a part of. Thanks for being a part of it.

I was just at PK7 in Mississauga....a first timer I was and it was AMAZING!

I was wondering how the neon flashlights were to be used in the closing
on Saturday I never ever expected to have such an emotional impact.

I was stopped by a friend's wife and daughter at church yesterday, and
they both thanked me for pushing him to attend his first PK event. In
their words, "He is a changed man. He came home Saturday night and started
sharing Bible verses he had learned with us, something that had never happened
before."

When Joe White came down my isle and laid hands on me it absolutely
stunned me, I felt it was the tender hand of God affirming His love in an hour
of need.

Personally, I will never forget our Prayer Team, men falling to their knees after Joe White presented the Gospel message in such a clear and simple way, the sound of men worshiping, and the "whoah" again at the end of the event. There are so many more stories to be told that could never fit in this blog. I'd love to hear your stories.

I am tired but refreshed. Above all, I am reminded yet again that "His power at work within us can do far more than we dare ask or imagine."

It Happened Again in Regina

2007-10-27T16:07:00.000-07:00

We have just completed our second Pure Power Men's Conference - this time in Regina. It's been a mixed blessing for me. I missed much of the event with a very sore throat. I was really frustrated at not being able to be part of all that God was doing.

That said, I love to hear the stories from the men themselves. It was awesome to see men from all ages and all backgrounds in life come together for this encounter with God. One man told me how after 12 years of attending PK events, all of the speakers at this one were just so real and honest with the men - a feeling that we are in this together.

An elderly gentleman (I'm guessing in his 80's) shook my hand at the end of the event and just could not stop thanking me enough.

Men were set free, the prayers were answered, and we have a bunch of men who are filled with His Pure Power and ready to be the light of the world Jesus said we are.

Now, what happened again in Regina?
After the Calgary event I mentioned how we close the conferences this year. The exact same crowd reaction we got in Calgary is what happened here in Regina. There was a spontaneous sound of a "whoa" from the men. Why did they do this? Well, for those of you who live in Ontario or Manitoba, we won't spoil the secret for you. Just make sure you're at Pure Power.

I am so glad that our God is alive, He can still move mountains, and that He is mighty to save. That's what He did this weekend in Regina.

Please be in prayer for our staff. Many of us are now battling colds and flu bugs and we still have our biggest event of the year to go in just two weeks.

Travel Day

2007-10-25T06:39:00.000-07:00

Thursday's are often a travel day for our staff. When your ministry events take place on a weekend, we will fly into town on Thursday to prepare for that weekend's activities.

Some of our team is already on the ground in Regina, setting up for the conference there this weekend. Others will be traveling to the London, Ontario area for the first module of Discipleship Training Unleashed in Ontario.

We are trusting that God is going to do amazing things in the lives of the men in attendance at both of these events. They are distinct and unique opportunities for men to encounter what God wants to say to them.

However, I want to ask you to be in prayer for all on our team who will travel today. It's never much fun to leave your family for a few days. Usually (at least in my case), havoc happens when dad is away. The kids know just the right buttons to press. Whether our kids are still at home or not, our wives bear the load while we travel.

This is also usually a time when we start to be physically worn out.

So, besides the prayer for safety as we travel, please pray for our families and for our health. We all want to give our all to God and the men He has called us to serve this weekend.

I'll be back on Saturday night to let you know how things went in Regina.

Pure Power Begins in Calgary

2007-10-13T16:21:00.000-07:00

We have just completed the first Pure Power Conference and God exceeded all of our expectations and dreams!

Earlier today I was told the story of one man who came to the front for prayer last night and during that time, He placed his faith in Jesus and became a follower of Christ. But that's not where the story ends. He returned to his seat, looked over at his friend and said "Do you want to give your life to Jesus too?" His friend said - "Oh yeah, I need Jesus." Just like that two more men were added to the Kingdom of God!

What an amazing experience to see men come face to face with the statement of Jesus that we are the light of the world. There are so many stories that I could tell you, but here is one thing I have to say -- when you're at Pure Power this fall, stay right until the end. You won't be disappointed. Today, I witnessed one of the most powerful sights I have ever experienced in almost 13 years of PK events I've been a part of. The gasps from the men when this happened were just overwhelming. You've got to see it to believe it.

Next up -- Regina! Guys in Regina and Ontario - tell your friends and get out to Pure Power!

Countdown to Pure Power

2007-10-11T14:46:00.000-07:00

I'm sitting in Calgary right now getting ready for the Pure Power National Men's Conference at First Alliance Church.

We are looking forward to an awesome time this weekend. Months and months of hard work begin to take life this weekend as we begin a string of conferences in the next 5 weekends. It is somewhat of a surreal experience to have done so much preparation, and then to stand back and wait to see what God is going to do when He does the eternal work in our lives.

Please be in prayer for all that is going to happen in Calgary this weekend. Earlier this week, one of our speakers had to cancel at the last minute due to a personal emergency. Those things always catch you by surprise, but at the same time you know that God is not surprised by the circumstances and He has something planned that we are not fully aware of yet.

I will keep you posted later this weekend on all that God does at Pure Power.

Summer Is Officially Over!

2007-09-21T04:47:00.000-07:00

OK. I'm not really sure what day is the official last day of summer. However, in the ministry world, you see a noticeable change in the seasons. The phone starts to ring more, the calendar gets busier, and emails increase exponentially.

This is great news as we begin to move into another season of ministry at PK.

Discipleship Training Unleashed
Last weekend was the third module of our Discipleship Training program in Manitoba. More than 40 men were trained on how to begin to mentor other men to be the husbands God has designed them to be.

This weekend is a historical moment for PK. We are expecting more than 30 First Nations men at a camp just outside of Regina to begin the journey of discovering God's design for their lives as men while also being equipped to begin to mentor other First Nations men. The difficult challenges facing those in the First Nations community is no secret, and we are trusting that God will use this in a powerful way to see a wave of discipleship begin for these men.

We are thrilled to partner with Healing Hearts Ministries from the Regina area to bring this training together.

Pure Power Planning
This has been a particularly busy week for Pure Power. Early bird registration deadlines are coming up next week in Calgary and Regina and the following week for Mississauga. In addition, we have spent some time putting the finishing touches on the program for the men.

Last night, our staff were involved in a video shoot that will be played during Pure Power. If you remember "Ron and Don" from last year, you will not want to miss this year's video as we go back to a classic combo from television history.

More importantly, we are really seeing God's plans come together for these events and trusting He is going to do great things this fall. New partnerships are being formed. New churches are promoting the events. The excitement is building.

It is going to be a great journey as we learn together how to walk in God's power and be free from those things that are overpowering us in life.

I just received these words from one man who has seen an advanced copy of the "Pure Power Workout" study guide - available to all men as part of their registration at Pure Power. In his words, "the guide looks very, very good."

There is a lot to talk about. We'll update you some more next week.

Power vs. Authority

2007-09-13T07:05:00.000-07:00

Earlier this week, we completed our Annual General Meeting. This meeting comprises the Board of Directors, PK Corporation Members, and Staff and is designed to provide an environment for accountability and encouragement on the direction of the ministry and the finances of the ministry.

It was so encouraging to see the support of the Board and Corporation Members. In terms of an organizational chart, they are who the staff of PK Canada are accountable to. God has given them a form of authority over the ministry.

I know most men have had a bad experience with authority. It may have been your dad, a bad employer, or even challenges with a pastor.

The truth is, all of us live under someone's authority. Jesus Himself lived under the authority of His Heavenly Father. We are called in Scripture to submit to those in government, our employers, and to also have someone who we submit ourselves to spiritually.

Authority can cross a line when it becomes about their power to hold something over us. The best form of authority is when it is operated in God's power and according to God's standards as outlined in Scripture.

Yes, submitting to someone else's authority can be challenging at times. Yet, I have discovered that it also sets us free because responsibility ultimately falls at the feet of those in authority, not on you.

You may have had a bad experience with someone abusing power or their authority (or maybe you are someone who crosses the line yourself on this). This fall, I urge you to attend the Pure Power National Men's Conferences and understand what a life of power from God's perspective looks like.

Even Airplanes Fail

2007-08-30T07:23:00.000-07:00

I was supposed to be in Montreal today. We are seeing some great early development of our expansion to be a bilingual ministry. Today was going to be a very important day with a number of different meetings with key individuals.

My flight was scheduled to leave at 7 am, which means I was awake at about 5 am to get there on time (I am definitely NOT a morning person). By now, you should have figured out that I did not make it to Montreal. Due to technical difficulties, the airplane was not suitable for flight. While I am upset that I did not make it to Montreal, I am glad they caught the problem while we were still on the ground.

As I sat and tried to figure out my next steps, it came to me that even the most powerful machines in the world sometimes experience a power failure.

You may be a really successful man or you may feel overpowered by some of life's circumstances right now. All of us certainly know someone like this. No matter your current state in life, you will face times where there seems to be a personal power failure.

During Pure Power, we will talk about how to walk and live in the power that never fails .. the power of God.

I have started meeting with some of the men who will be our featured speakers at Pure Power. These guys can't wait to be with you, and God is doing things in their life personally that I know will give us hope and courage and direction to walk in God's power each day.

Men in Calgary, get ready for a message and a real sword from Mark Hughes that you won't soon forget.
Men in Regina, Dave Currie is going to make a lasting impression
Men going to Missisauga, Joe White is going to build a real cross on stage in a passionate and powerful message, and Gary Smalley has found a personal secret to overcome lust or any other thing in life that is overpowering you. The personal openness of the struggles and victories these men face has been an encouragement to me.

We invite you to also pray daily for the upcoming events. To read the Daily Prayer Thought, click here.

The Power of Being a Dad

2007-08-27T04:03:00.000-07:00

A new study reported by USAToday finds that a high percentage of young adults who attended church while in high school stop attending by age 23. The poll was conducted by LifeWay Research, an affiliate of the publishing arm of the Southern Baptist Convention. 70% of young adults drop out of Protestant churches, and 34% do not attend even sporadically after age 30. That means at least one in four young people who leave the church never return.

"This is sobering news that the church needs to change the way it does ministry," says Ed Stetzer who directed the study. "It seems the teen years are like a free trial on a product. By 18, when it's their choice whether to buy in to church life, many don't feel engaged and welcome," says the associate director Scott McConnell.

Interestingly, the survey also found that those who stayed or returned to the church tended to grow up in a home where both parents are committed to the church. This may indicate that parents play a more crucial role in the spiritual development of their children than any church program.

During "Pure Power" we plan to deal with this very issue. As fathers and grandfathers, we play a vital role in the spiritual life of our kids and grandkids. How can we make sure that these young men and women are walking in God's power? Is there any hope? Is it the job of the church to make this impact? How does a strong marriage make a difference for our kids?

Over the last 10 years at PK, I have been privileged to see many remarkable moments with men who desire to follow Christ. Yet one of my dreams is to bring one of my sons to a PK event with me. They are not quite old enough yet, but my oldest will be in the next couple of years.

Why is this one of my dreams? Because I want my sons to see that you can be a man and follow Christ. I want them to see that real men are willing to invest time each year to growing in their walk with God. I want them to experience worship with thousands of men.

If you get the chance, bring your son or grandson with you to Pure Power. You never know how God will etch that moment into his heart forever.

PK Radio Show - Coming Soon!

Glenn Allen, Rick Verkerk, and myself spent most of the day Thursday preparing for a new PK Canada radio program. This show will use the content from "The Edge on GoodNews Sports" TV show along with some commentary from the three of us. The program will hit the air sometime this fall.

Feeling Overpowered?

2007-08-20T11:54:00.000-07:00

Last week, I spent some time visiting a couple from my church. The wife had just been rushed to the hospital because the doctors thought she was about to give birth to their baby - less than 23 weeks into her pregnancy.

In that moment, I was overwhelmed at the circumstances this couple found themselves in. I also saw an amazing faith and confidence in God -- no matter the outcome of this situation. Thankfully, she did not deliver the baby yet. However, she is facing bed rest for the rest of her pregnancy while her husband stays home and takes care of their 1 year old child and two other kids -- not to mention keeps down his full time job.

While I am certain this story can be repeated - with different circumstances - to many others, the reality is that there are men by the thousands who feel overwhelmed and overpowered by life's circumstances.

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9

If you are one of these men, or know of a man facing these challenges, then I encourage you to invest in his life and take him away for a weekend of fun and discovering how to break free of being overpowered and walk in God's pure power.

Registrations are already starting to build. Some of these events are SOLD OUT on a regular basis, so you will want to register early. Until next time, remember that His power can do more than you dare ask or imagine.

Back To Work

2007-08-10T05:58:00.000-07:00

I've just completed my holidays and we're now back at it. There are very few times during the year where things slow down at Promise Keepers, but July is about as close to slow as we get. I'm so grateful that God has given us the gift of rest and uses it to prepare us for what He has in store for us next. Hopefully, you've been able to enjoy some rest as well.

Things are starting to pick up again as we get ready for the fall months.

Registrations are already starting to come in for "Pure Power" -- churches in Ontario, make sure you register your group early to get the sections and seats you want for the event at Hershey Centre.
Check out this article about a song on Robin Mark's new CD, and then you can also order this great worship CD from PK.
Our new "Songs of Pure Power" Worship CD is also available when you register for Pure Power conferences for just $16 including taxes and shipping.
We are working on a radio version of "The Edge" on Good News Sports (our TV show).
Our French expansion continues to be implemented with new programs and real time translation being offered at the "Pure Power" event at Hershey Centre.

I've been interested to see an increasing interest from those who minister to marginalized men across the nation. We are currently exploring several partnerships to be able to bring the ministry of Promise Keepers to men in the inner city, dealing with substance and alcohol abuse, and more.

Most of these men cannot afford any of the ministry that many men are willing to pay for. For that reason, we really need to see men help us reach other men and partner financially with us each month.

In the coming weeks, I'm going to begin to give some personal perspectives on "Power" and just how widespread of an issue this is for men today -- even if we don't want to admit it. We'll also look at some other activities and behind the scenes planning at Promise Keepers.

Until next time ... walk in His power.

The Pure Power Workout

2007-07-05T12:28:00.001-07:00

Earlier today I completed the first draft of the Pure Power Workout. This 6-week study guide is going to be a tool for men to use after attending a Pure Power National Men's Conference.

Writing a study guide can be very challenging, but also very rewarding. I have been overwhelmed at some of the Scriptures God has given to use in this study, and I just pray that men will understand that the conference is only the beginning in growing to be a man who lives in the pure power provided by God Himself.

In 2006/2007, approximately 1,500 men used The Unleashed Life as a study guide after attending the conferences. Some of the testimonies we received were extremely encouraging and rewarding as God used this study guide to help take men to the next level spiritually.

This year, we are doing something new and different. Every man who registers for a Pure Power Conference will receive a copy of this study guide as part of his registration. We are that serious about the importance of men meeting with other men after a conference is complete.

I am so grateful for the other staff who have really helped this study guide take shape along the way.

Part way through preparing this study guide, I came across the story of Samson. Here is what I wrote in my personal journal about Samson and the whole concept of power ...

Samson was one of the most powerful men to walk the face of the earth. The secret to his power was found in the vow he had taken to never have his head shaved. Through keeping this vow, God gave Samson what seemed to be supernatural physical power.

In Judges 16, the story of Samson takes an interesting twist. Samson has a relationship with a woman named Delilah. On three separate occasions, Delilah attempted to use her feminine charm and influence to get Samson to acknowledge the source of his strength. Each time, Samson lied to her and ultimately defeated the Philistines who had come to overpower him. Delilah must have had a special power over Samson for him to keep coming back for more!

Finally, on the fourth occasion, Samson told Delilah the truth and she shaved his head while he slept in her lap. Samson woke up to fight the Philistines, and here is how the Scriptures describe Samson’s reality in that moment….

“…he did not know that the LORD had left him.”
Judges 16:20

This story reminds me so much of my own life and the spiritual reality for men across this nation. How many times do we keep walking along the edge of sin, staying in its presence and thinking that it has no impact on our lives? We linger in this place of temporary fun, and slowly but surely we are being weakened by the seduction of this world.

There are many Christian men who are going through life operating as though everything is good, but in reality, the power of the LORD has left us; we are spiritually powerless.

After much pain (he lost both his eyes and was humiliated), Samson finally realized where his power really came from. His prayer was this ….

“O Lord GOD, please remember me and please strengthen me only this once…”
Judges 16:28

My prayer for every man who joins this journey is that you will rediscover God’s pure power. Together, may we be part of a great movement of God’s people across Canada who are operating in His power as the light of the world Jesus said we are.
I hope you plan now to use the Pure Power Workout after attending a Pure Power event. I am confident that God wants to encourage, challenge, and shape you even more as you work through this process.

I Am Canadian

2007-06-29T05:29:00.000-07:00

A few years ago, a popular commercial made the words "I Am Canadian" a popular phrase across the nation. Of course, it raised a greater question - what does it mean to be a Canadian? Everyone has their own perspective on how this is defined, but in honour of our country I offer you my Top 10 PK moments of men celebrating the privilege of being Canadians.

More than 13,000 men sing "O Canada" at Copps Coliseum in Hamilton in 1996. Even the arena staff talked about this one for years after the fact.

Remembrance Day Ceremony at the Hershey Centre in 2006. Seeing the flag lower from the ceiling and 7,000 men express a moment of silence -- that was enough to give me goosebumps.

A moment of silence in Winnipeg, 2007 to honour all men and women in the protective services in Canada and around the world.

Attending Stand in the Gap in Washington, DC in 1997. Sure, it was an American event, but we had these great "Team Canada" pullovers on and made it a time for thousands of Canadian men to pray for our nation.

Facilitating a men's conference in Ottawa the same weekend as a National Prayer gathering. Seeing our worship team led by Marc Brule bring 14,000 men and women to their feet with a song that challenges them to "Go Forth."

David Sweet (former President) making a statement on video in 2002 to Canada's leaders about how all of these men represented thousands more men who were committed to marriage as the union of one man and one woman. The response of the men was electric and reminded me how grateful I am to live in a country where we are free to express our beliefs.

Participating at a Cantonese event in Toronto and a French event in Montreal. One nation - many languages - one Lord! Simply awesome.

Watching men serve and bless protesters at events in Saskatoon and London. Again, the freedom in Canada for people to express their view and for men to show the reality of Jesus by serving these people. Imagine giving protesters in Saskatoon some warm clothes and coffee because it was so cold outside -- simply amazing.

Trying to do a conference a few weeks after 9-11. There was a special reality that our world in North America had changed, but our God never changes.

Singing a second verse to "O Canada" at conferences across the nation. The words were a stirring prayer to our Lord.

I am so grateful to have been born in Canada. God has blessed us beyond what we can imagine, and it is our calling to be faithful to Him in being the light to this nation of the hope and life and peace found in Jesus Christ.

The Gaither's sang a song called "A Few Good Men." I am trying to imagine the difference that thousands of good men have made in this nation over the years, and how that influence will continue to grow as we walk in the Pure Power of our God.

God keep our land.

New Resources Being Developed for Pure Power

2007-06-21T07:46:00.000-07:00

Summer used to be a slower time around the office. That has dramatically changed in the last couple of years.

We are currently working on a couple of brand new resources that will be available in the coming weeks.

Songs of Pure Power
Our brand new Worship CD features 14 songs and is a compilation of some of the top worship leaders in the world (Chris Tomlin, Matt Redman, Lincoln Brewster, and the Newsboys), along with some Canadian worship leaders you may not have heard from before. The artwork has just been completed, and we have received permission from all of the artists to use their songs.

These songs will be featured during the PK events this fall and spring, so you are encouraged to order them with your registration in order to learn the songs in advance. When you order with your registration, you only pay $16 for the CD - including shipping and taxes.

Pure Power Workout
We received a great response last year from men who used The Unleashed Life study guide to follow up the Unleashed National Men's Conferences. It was perhaps the highest selling small group study guide we have ever had at PK Canada. This year, we're taking it one step further. Included in your registration fee for Pure Power is a copy of the Pure Power Workout.

This 6 session study guide is designed for men to use on their own or with a group of friends to follow up the teaching that takes place during the Pure Power National Men's Conferences. We know that it is challenging to stay on track after an event, and that is why we develop this tool for men to use.

The study guide is starting to come together and should be printed later on this summer. So, if you're wondering why we're not selling a study guide prior to the events this year, it is because we want to make sure every man has one in his hands when he attends the event. They will be available for sale at the events and online to allow men who were not able to attend the opportunity to experience the teaching from Pure Power.

The Father Factor

2007-06-15T05:29:00.000-07:00

As we celebrate another Father's Day, I am once again reminded of how important father's are. A friend of PK Canada - Vince D'Acchioli - has often talked about what he considers to be a crisis in America .... the fatherless generation. Millions of children going to bed at night without their dad in their life.

In Canada, it may not be that bad, but it is still there. I have spoken with many inner city workers who share the same concept. Colin McCartney from Urban Promise recently shared a day he experienced supporting a young man who was in court for a certain crime. As Colin looked around the courthouse that day, he saw many mom's crying for and comforting their children. Sadly, there were no dad's to be seen.

Some statistics say that 9 out of every 10 kids who grow up in the church leave the church and many times their faith completely when they graduate from high school.

At PK Canada, we are convinced that a big part of the issue is the state of fatherhood in Canada. For the Christian man, fatherhood is so much more than just how to provide for his children, or spend the right amount of time with his kids (although that is critical too).

These are things we learned from our ancestors, and we
will tell them to the next generation. We won't keep secret the glorious deeds
and the mighty miracles of the LORD.
God gave his Law to Jacob's descendants, the people of Israel. And he told our ancestors to teach their children, so that each new generation would know his Law and tell it to the next. Then they would trust God and obey his teachings,
without forgetting anything God had done. Psalm 78

until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to
come. Psalm 71

While it is nice to have a local church youth group or good Christian friends, there is nothing that can replace the influence and calling God has given to us as fathers in helping to shape the spiritual development of our children.

That is why during Pure Power, we will deal with the issue of fatherhood during The Edge Roundtable discussion. Real dads will discuss their struggles and victories to help their children understand and live in the power of God and understand what it looks like to faithfully follow Him.

There is hope! This past weekend in Langley, BC we partnered with Christian Life Assembly to facilitate a Building Men of Purity Seminar. During this event, fathers were given the opportunity to bless their sons. Steve Masterson described to me something he had not seen before. Virtually every blessing was turned around as the sons blessed their fathers!

Could it be that the fathers of Canada are a significant part of the solution to the emotional and spiritual troubles facing our children? I believe that a generation of men who walk in God's power can make a signficant difference in the future of our country as we live and proclaim His power to that generation.

A New Way To Take Men Deeper

2007-06-08T08:19:00.000-07:00

For the past ten years, PK Canada's seminars have been used by God to help men experience an in depth equipping from God's Word on critical areas of being a man. This weekend, a new way of presenting a PK Canada Seminar will begin in Langley, BC.

The Building Men of Integrity Seminar has helped thousands of Canadian men discover freedom from spiritual passivity and apathy and also experience the power of a father's blessing.

The Building Marriages of Integrity Seminar has been described by many couples as a unique experience of eavesdropping in the living room of the presenters and journeying together to wrestle through life's challenges and discover how God created us to experience spirit, soul, and body oneness in marriage.

The Building Men of Purity & Holiness Seminar has allowed us to be part of addressing a growing problem in our culture while presenting the awesome joy of God's design for our sexuality.

These events have always been scheduled based on the invitation of a community. Usually, PK Canada required 200 attendees to help cover the costs of the event. These numbers sometimes made it difficult for churches to bring a seminar to their community.

Starting this year, PK Canada presents two options for PK Canada Seminars. Besides our traditional approach of helping a community to host a seminar through event management and budget management (targeting about 200 attendees), we are also about to launch a new model that allows the church to pay a lower, one time fee to PK Canada.

This "Church led" model is what will be launched in Langley this weekend using our Building Men of Purity & Holiness Seminar. Churches who wish to use this model are able to host an event for less than 200 people because their expenses are limited to the fee to PK Canada plus whatever other expenses they wish to incur.

It is our hope that by providing both options, we are able to partner even further with churches to provide these life changing seminars.

Seminar topics that are available from PK Canada include:

God's Design for Manhood

Marriage Seminar (for couples)

Sexuality

Fathering

Parenting Seminar (for couples)

Success that Matters -- Discovering Significance as a man

If you are interested in hosting a PK Canada Seminar, please contact Rick Verkerk - rick@promisekeepers.ca

Packing Up for Father's Day

2007-06-01T12:08:00.000-07:00

Now that registrations have opened for Pure Power, and we're all set for The Edge on GoodNews Sports (watch promo video) to begin airing on Global TV, our attention turns to another big activity taking place in just a couple of weeks.

Each year, we encourage churches to partner with us to give the men in their congregation a gift for Father's Day. Dad's are facing great challenges, but there are also awesome rewards. I love sharing stories with our other staff about the interesting things our children will do. We are father's just like many of you, and our kids do great and not so great things, just like yours do.

Father's Day represents one day out of the year when we can take off our hats and salute these great men that God has entrusted to mentor and shape future generations.

This year, almost 24,000 men will receive a gift from their church of either the Men of Integrity devotional or a CD from Dan Seaborn (www.winningathome.com). This is the largest response we have had in the history of PK Canada, and we are grateful to partner with the churches of Canada to honour and thank the men who faithfully serve as the fathers of this nation.

Our office team has been busy packing boxes and shipping the materials. Everything should be on its way by now thanks to the hard work of our Admin team.

So, from the entire team at PK Canada -- an early Happy Father's Day to the men of Canada.

Stay On Your Knees

2007-05-26T16:16:00.001-07:00

We just completed a successful meeting with the Board of Directors and Leadership of Promise Keepers Canada. During this time, a new three year plan was presented to the Board along with our annual plan and ministry budget.

Board Chair, Wally Budgell, rightfully reminded all of us that we are experiencing great times at PK Canada, but that we must always remember who has brought us to this point, and that we must remain on our knees - completely relying on Him.

Practice What You Preach
As we continue to try and stay humble before God, we are overwhelmed at His goodness. This week alone, we will be launching our TV show - The Edge on GoodNews Sports - on the Global television network across the nation. The potential exists for millions of viewers to see this show over the coming weeks.

One day before that, we open registrations for the PurePower National Men's Conferences. These events are taking shape to be, we believe, one of the most powerful events God has led us to put together.

God is doing great things in the lives of men across this nation, and we are grateful to Him for the honour of being a part of it.

Is It All About the Money?

2007-05-18T10:49:00.000-07:00

One of the great misunderstandings some people have about PK Canada is that when we facilitate events, we are just doing it to take the money and run.

Several years ago, PK Canada was in a desperate financial situation and any amount of money would have been very beneficial. I remember when Ron Hannah (current President of PKC, who at the time was Director of Marketing), came to me with an idea. "What do you think about giving revenue from our conferences away to other ministries?"

To say that I thought Ron had fallen off the deep end would be an understatement. I thought we needed that money to pay our own bills.

After a long discussion, and several weeks in prayer, we developed a plan called "The Joseph Project." The idea of Joseph is to take the "plenty" that God gives to us and give it away to others. We take the net revenue from registrations and sponsorships for an event and give it away to other ministries.

This was one of the pivotal decisions made in the history of PK Canada. As we started to think about how to bless others, God turned things around and expanded this ministry beyond our wildest expectations and dreams.

Between June, 2006 and May, 2007 Promise Keepers Canada will give more than $35,000 to other ministries ranging from inner city ministries to First Nations ministry, evangelism ministry, and more. It is our goal and desire to be part of building the Body of Christ in Canada. God blesses us at these events, and we are in turn able to bless others.

Besides the $35,000 given away to other ministries, PK Canada also supports other "missions" efforts to men in Canada.

Hundreds of men attended PK Canada events for free because they could not afford the registration fee.

Thousands of men receive the WiseChoices materials -- even though they cannot make a donation at this time to help us cover the costs

We are able to partner with various ministries to support efforts to reach First Nations men, men in prison, and men in recovery programs like Teen Challenge Farm.

Yesterday, I had the privilege of meeting with Colin McCartney - Executive Director of UrbanPromise Toronto. During that meeting, I presented Colin with a cheque for $4,000 from the Joseph Project.

Several days ago, Colin had been informed that grant money usually received by UrbanPromise to help facilitate summer camps for inner city children would not be given this year. The gift from Promise Keepers Canada combined with another unexpected gift have helped cover the loss. What is great about this is that we did not know about this specific need - just that we believe God wanted us to support UrbanPromise Toronto.

Now, hundreds of children from the inner city of Toronto will experience summer camp and most importantly, experience God's love and care for them.

So, is it all about the money? Well, in some ways it is, but not in the way you might think. Finances help enable ministry to happen, and we are so grateful that God allows us to be enablers of ministry across this nation. Each person who attends a PKC event helps us be a blessing to others in need -- thank you for your support.

Big Things Happening

2007-05-11T11:50:00.000-07:00

Eleven years ago, I would have never imagined that PKC would be where God has brought us to today. In the coming weeks, I hope to share with you some of the behind the scenes planning at PKC and most importantly, the endless stories of God's power and grace at work in the lives of Canadian men.

PKC TV Goes National

Writing those words feels a little surreal. Next month, the PKC TV show - The Edge on GoodNews Sports - which has been featured on CTS TV for the first few months of '07 - will begin airing on Global TV across the country. God has already given us the privilege of reaching more than 200,000 viewers combined for the first episodes on CTS - I can't wait until hundreds of thousands (maybe even millions??) of men are introduced to manhood from the perspective of Jesus.

PurePower

Our 2007 National Men's Conferences open for registration on June 1st. Our verse this year, "His power at work in us can do far more than we dare ask or imagine" pretty much summarizes our hopes and prayers for these events. We have put a lot of hard work into these events already and are really excited at the speakers God is bringing together to reach men.

For the first time ever, we will be working with one of North America's leading Christian speakers and authors - Gary Smalley - at the event we host in Toronto/Mississauga.

If you haven't been to a PKC event lately (or maybe never before), I have to say that this year is one we are especially looking forward to. There is something special about meeting with thousands of men - none of us perfect, but all of us looking to be part of something bigger than ourselves.

A God Story

OK. Technically, all of life is a God story, but I thought I would share one specific story with you. Last year, I was given the chance to write my first small group study guide for men. It was a real thrill, but what an author doesn't always get to see is the fruit for his efforts.

Yesterday, I received an email from a man in Manitoba. Here is a brief excerpt of what he shared with me.

we decided to take our men through your Discussion Guide the Unleashed Life as a follow up to the conference. We started our Unleashed Life meetings 2 weeks after the conference and have been meeting every two weeks.(Next session is this coming Monday “Unleashed Warriors”)

The format for the evening is; about a 15 min Worship music set played by live band and worship leader. One of the Guys from our leadership team gets up to share for about 15 min to intro the chapter we are focusing on, we then break into groups to go through the questions, then take some of them up in a large group discussion, end in Prayer and call it a night.
During our second Session or week 2 Freedom from Paralysis your question 2 on page 9 started a landslide or a free for all of public confession and 25 + guys gathered around men who where on their knees weeping and calling out to God to clean them and free them. One by one, men where set free, we claimed our freedom in Christ and Freedom from Paralysis and God met us in a BIG way. Our meeting went on for a couple of extra hours as God’s Spirit did a renewing work in many Men!

I just wanted to give you a picture of how God has used your material to change men’s lives and I wanted to say Thank you for putting your time, effort, your heart and your passion into Men’s ministry.

Keep up the good work!

Nothing more to be said other than...... thanks God!